I'v had the worst 5 months of my life. ( i will be divorced soon ). 2night i'm going out with some mates, going to get dolled up, and party. And if i get the chance i'm going to pull a bloke, sleep with him !!!! and say goodbye. just sex. I'v been the nice, loving wife, for the last 19 years, and now i want to be the slapper.( ok i'm 40 old tart will do) How bad is that ?
2006-08-25 23:28:05 · 26 answers · asked by jaki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You go girl. Be safe and have fun. Mx
2006-08-25 23:30:31 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not bad to go out and get what you want as long as that IS what you want. a name like a slapper or tart takes a bit of work and ultimately is a result of having no respect for yourself, keep your head held high and no one can call you a tart or slapper!
2006-08-26 06:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by cassjag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go for it. As for the american giving an answer that says you would be called a cheap whore over there, yeh right cause you guys are soooo stable!!! Half the people there don't even know where the UK is and as for your inbred rednecks!! Even our chavs are not as bad as that. You are a 40 year old woman who knows what she wants, I don't call that being a whore I call it being a free thinking independant woman!!! Be safe and you enjoy it girl!!!
2006-08-26 11:11:40 · answer #3 · answered by gypsyeyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you want to all of what you said? Ok go have fun, party, party, party, flirt even but do you not think you deserve more, are worth more than being 'a slapper' I think you would just feel dirty aferwards and thats not what you deserve.
2006-08-26 06:48:53 · answer #4 · answered by TOTO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not bad at all as long as u take the necessary precautions-use protection, let your mates not only see him but get his digits (make sure by calling it that it is his number) & give it to 1 of them & most importantly have sex w/ him somewhere public (like a hotel) so that there are people close by in case the situation becomes hazardous
2006-08-26 07:02:14 · answer #5 · answered by momatendofrope 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait till divorce is over before sleeping with another man... Even if the process is going on you're still married and if your husband learns about it he can use it against you.
Once divorced though, I hope you will have lots of fun :)
2006-08-26 06:33:53 · answer #6 · answered by Bart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go for it. 19 years un a relationship being the loving wife and this is what happens. Well you go out and enjoy yourself. 40 aint old. Am sure you will be able to get any guy you want.
just play safe and be careful..........................
P.S. am off out tonight to so i might bump into you lol.......
2006-08-26 06:34:10 · answer #7 · answered by mr_scotsguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should beat yourself up over having a one night stand however i think you should look at your motivation for doing this and wether it will make you feel better or worse,
when i was a bouncer i had a habit of getting girls interested and once they asked me to go home with them i stopped, i just wanted to feel worrthwhile i didnt want the sex
2006-08-26 06:34:39 · answer #8 · answered by orfeo_fp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u go 4 it girl, let your hair down and have fun, but be careful,use protection!!!!!19 yrs is a very long time,u wudnt get that 4 murder these days!!!have a fab nite.hope u pull.ha ha
2006-08-26 06:42:02 · answer #9 · answered by mizz1985 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
know how you feel, have been there myself-and deeply regretted it. Right now you're hurting, don't pull just have a good time with your mates couple months you'll look back and laugh!
2006-08-26 06:35:48 · answer #10 · answered by what? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i felt like that when my ex hubby left, but its not all it claims to be...
i went out tried to pull, got lucky a few times but felt like a sl**.....
so just started going out to party with my friends and felt better about myself, confident, had the odd dance with a bloke, but just kept control of my life......
2006-08-26 06:34:26 · answer #11 · answered by fossil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋