i like this guy at school but i know it's going nowhere. i need to get over him . i think abt him all the time. i hate it cuz i cant concentrate on my study and it makes me feel sad and desparate . im trying to forget abt him but i cant. how to not to think of him anymore. he is in 2 of classes so i see him almost everyday.
2006-08-25 23:23:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is the only guy in your school then you have a problem.If not,then look around, your dream guy might be hidding in a corner. Find him and get a life.
2006-08-25 23:30:04 · answer #1 · answered by The Inquisitive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've used these strategies for girls, but I'm betting that they'll work for you too.
1) Keep yourself as busy as humanly possible. Preferably in tasks that involve your brain so that you don't have room in your thoughts for him. Doing homework, getting a busy job, volunteering, starting a new hobby etc. are all good options.
2) When you do have "down-time" put it to use engaging your brain. I read or watched movies all of the time because then I could get sucked into somebody elses world and not worry about mine.
3) Exercise or do physically demanding tasks so that you're so tired when it's bed time you aren't able to stay awake and think about him.
4) Sit on the other side of the classroom from him. Interact with him as little as possible.
5) Notice his bad habits. Does he scratch alot? Does his breath usually stink when he talks to you? Is he rude to people? Imagine what could cause these defects in his character. (This one is petty and shallow, I know, but it works)
These suggestions are only for temporary use. Each day you'll get a little less crazy about him. After awhile, you won't need them anymore. I'm sorry that you feel this way, I completely know what you're going through. I remember wanting to rip my hair out and crawl out of my skin when I felt like that. Good luck to you! I hope some of these work!
~ FR
2006-08-26 06:37:52 · answer #2 · answered by Max 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling all to well Nicole i was the same way in high school. I liked all kind of girls in school but it was a 1 way street. It was hard to get them out of my mind to but it took a while but i finally did in 71 when i got engaged only to be dumped graduation night of 73. I've been engaged twice but broken hearted numerous times. BRENT
2006-08-26 06:37:42 · answer #3 · answered by longanhard2009 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best way I know to do this is go out and flirt with other guys. In fact, go out and flirt with 5-10 today. Once you start interacting with other guys, you will soon forget about him. If he wants you bad enough, he will get some balls and ask you out. If not, don't wait up for him. It is his loss not yours.
2006-08-26 06:32:26 · answer #4 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u really need time to get over that guy..
all you could do now is either you find another.. or focus yourself to your studies..
you could also indulge yourself to some produvtive works that would preoccupy you and keep your mind from that guy..
a hobby would be great..
friends could help too..
2006-08-26 06:31:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fastest way to get over someone is to find another one to have a crush on :)
2006-08-26 06:30:01 · answer #6 · answered by aerdna2u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn or sit away from him and concentrate on studying
2006-08-26 06:25:52 · answer #7 · answered by escondido_cinnamon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to avoid him at all costs, even though he is in two of your classes, just try to ignore him as if he's one of your enemies... I'll pass.
2006-08-26 06:28:21 · answer #8 · answered by roadrunner1977 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will need time. Take care of yourself. This too shall pass.
2006-08-26 06:24:57 · answer #9 · answered by Persephone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sigh. love??? or infatuation? i mean, if ur a teenager seldom does real love happen. so i guess that's infatuation. aaand u'll get over it.
2006-08-26 06:27:28 · answer #10 · answered by smashmouth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋