2006-08-25 23:21:52 · 32 answers · asked by jacklin tkodii 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Hair
Love yourself first
2006-08-25 23:24:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You need first to accept who you are, and to know that you have a right to exist, to be free, and to be happy with yourself.
Friends are a good source of potential lovers. If you have few friends, start casting the net. Befriend first, rather than wait for friends to arrive.
Trust is a harder issue than love. Trust is vital, if love is to have some sort of stability to it. Without trust, a relationship is worthless.
Finally, don't fall for the trap that a person is somehow incomplete without a partner. That's a combination of peer pressure, TV and newspaper indoctrination and family expectations - every parent wants to see their children grow up happy. It's just that their idea of happiness involves you turning into clones of them. Your folks can't help thinking like this. It's in their genes.
There are some who seem to grow away from forming romances, and yet who seem unusually fulfilled. That's because, at some point, they have come to terms with themselves and their lives and, even though they are still alone, they know that the world loves them in some way, because otherwise they'd be dead already. This might not happen to you - I hope not - but it is possible to be fulfilled, and loved, and still remain single.
:D Whichever way your life goes, good luck.
2006-08-25 23:37:59 · answer #2 · answered by fiat_knox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have experienced love, or your understanding of love, in some small way in your life until now. So to some extent you already have found love, or been shown what love means.
You must be clear in your own mind what you mean by "find love". If you mean find a person who you want to spend the rest of your life with, then don't wait at the bus stop. If you mean find your own way to love living, then get on with it. When you are clearly enjoying yourself regardless of your situation, people will find you attractive.
So to some extent the best answer is to find what makes you love life, as opposed to death, and live that life. Love will then find you.
2006-08-25 23:50:44 · answer #3 · answered by James 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
y do u need 2 find love?love will find u.u can try makeing a lot of frnds.talking 2 a lot of people.but believe me u dont need 2 find it.it will find u.mayb its not da right time.wait.pacience work or else i m there 4 u if ur a guy that is.
2006-08-29 21:23:57 · answer #4 · answered by rs_sa2008 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will KNOW when you find LOVE
2006-08-29 10:02:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can only find love in Jesus Christ the true love, which the world can never give.
2006-08-25 23:44:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can't go looking for it. the best love has to find you first.
2006-08-26 01:54:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to different social places, talk to allot of people, date some people. Eventually you will find the right person :).
2006-08-25 23:27:30 · answer #8 · answered by skillith 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
love will find you
2006-08-25 23:41:24 · answer #9 · answered by frank c 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
love finds u when u least expect it. never seem to find it when u look for it
2006-08-25 23:27:56 · answer #10 · answered by Barson 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋