Why would you assume me to be ashamed of Crossdressing merely cause I do it in private?

Question

I do it in private because there's far far too many jerks that say You Need professonal help!
I've tried that route anyhow and it didn't work, it make me half dead.. risperdol, seroquel, chloropromozene! I better off without that junk
Well I was on www.crossdressers.com but Tamara insulted me and I complained and I was banned from that site. Tamara turned out to be a moderator! I haven't found a suitable replacement for www.crossdressers.com but I have found out that 73% of males crossdress but only 27-37% dare admit it! I don't see anything to be ashamed of in crossdressing it isn't hurting anyone! Those that think I need professonal help are absolute JERKS! I was an Idiot for even trying the route. I'm doing what the Bible says Be True To Thine ownself! Truth Shalt Make Ye Free! What Shalt thou Gain if though Gain the World and Lose thy soul (spirit)? Ashamed of Crossdressing ? No I just hate those that say You Need Professional help.. I tried that!

Answer 1

good morning, I am having my morning coffee on a mountain side in Brazil and your question touches a personal cord. I think all of us have a part of ourselves that is private, personal and to be kept to ourselves. The world is full of jerks and self serving people, but also well meaning, kind and accepting people. First and often the hardest is to accept and understand ourselves. This sometimes takes all of our lives and often most of our energy. Is the cross-dressing you or a part of you? If only a part then keep it private and offer the world the rest of you. If it is you then find your self acceptance first. Find friends that have their own twists and turns, accept them fully and you will find your place. Bottom line anger at what we can't change can ruin our whole life.

Answer 2

Professional help does you NO GOOD if you don't take the medication, ding-dong! Why is it so many bi-polars or paranoids think that they "don't" need the medication and everyone else is nuts? You go to a professional to get help; they try to help you and YOU know more than they do! does that make since to you?
Well, maybe it does.

Who gives a flying f*ck what you do with the crossdressing. You have it all figured out so why do you even care what anyone else thinks? You even have documentation to quote. GO for it, Dude. You don't need help for CROSSDRESSING; you need help for your mental problem. By the way, you really look nice.

Answer 3

I wouldn't dare assume u r ashamed if cross dressing in private is the only enjoyment u get due to the hassles of being in public I say good on u and no I don't think all cross dressers need help my belief is that women's clothes are sexy

Answer 4

Well they fella, Don't fret.I too am a male that crossdresses.I am only into womens intimates{bras,panties teddies and kotex} But I am slowly coming out.I wear my bras in public,but under shirts so you can't see it. I also stuff my bra cups to appear that I have real boobs. So do not be ashamed of what you do!! You are probably just like me a female trapped in a mans body. Give it time----Wear something frilly and sexy it will make you feel better....

Answer 5

If it makes you happy and you are not hurting anyone, why should you be ashamed .There are lots of people in both sexes that do it . Anyway why should you be concerned with what other people think.To each his or her own I always say .And as long as you're not hurting yourself or others don't be concerned with their opinions . It's your life isn't it.

Answer 6

Have you read "thou shall not lie?" Risperdal, seroquel, and chloropromozene are not for cross dressing. They are for psychotic disorders. :)

Answer 7

whatever floats your boat, man

Answer 8

because you're terrible at it