Especially if u have been together for six years and you thought u were soulmates
2006-08-25 22:52:27 · 17 answers · asked by Pretty1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Remember, there are so many degrees of being a soul-mate, and even if you are, it does not necessarily mean you will be together forever.
Get involved with other things, and with other people - exercise, read, go to plays, travel, become a big brother/sister, cook, clean, rent sappy videos, write a novel.... There are so many ways to occupy your time, and then you will see that you have survived the emotional trauma, and you may even have some new person to be interested in.
2006-08-26 01:16:12 · answer #1 · answered by Curious1usa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sometimes hearts don't heal. We patch the wounds and move on. And then we find love again and that heals the heart more, but we always carry the scars.
I used to think we only had one soulmate....one love and no one else. As I have aged, I found that to be wrong.. My soulmate betrayed me and lied to me. And it still hurts after ten years. But it heals as time goes on. It is part of the cycle of life.
Take good care of yourself and trust that love will come again.
2006-08-25 23:05:56 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dont keep that heart give it back if its broken and get a brand new one :-) no really i can sympathise me and my gf broke up recently and there seems to be a gap in my life but hey i am not a survivor i am an overcommer so i will and am overcomming it. How? What i do is i Think and work on the things i want and wanted (trips, clothing...) and i decided that hey its her lost so hell if i care i am moving on to better women. But hey do this because it helps dont rush into another relationship right away. I mean who Knows she may return and a quick rebound is only good in a basketball bmatch.
2006-08-25 23:01:03 · answer #3 · answered by chad g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask yrslef, why you fell in love in the first palce then you go thru the day u met right up to the time u split, incidences that have made an impression on yr relationship will show up and you will so see the mistakes, once you have done down that journey, cry if you must, then forgive and forget and let go it is only whn u let go of all the hurt will you leave yr past behind, always keep in mind, whn u love someone let them go if they come back to u they are yrs if thy dont they neevr was... no regrets, be glad it happend and be glad it ended after 6 yrs it could have been longer ... move on.God Bless
2006-08-25 22:57:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no quickest way. Americans are so used to having everything NOW. It will take time and patience and taking care of yourself. The question is: do you have what it takes?
You suffered a loss. Allow yourself to mourn then MOVE ON
2006-08-25 22:57:14 · answer #5 · answered by Persephone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another? i guess.. thats it.. coz u asked for the quickest way right?.. coz its really not easy to mend a broken heart.. only time could really heal broken hearts.. specially if you've been with the person for a long time..
for now, all you could do is diviate your atention to something else that would make you happy.. not necessarily a person.. it coulb be a hobby or a pet or a thing.. its up to you to find one..
2006-08-25 23:01:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is that true that u were all togeter for six years ? i am really sorry for u but i dont think that there is any way to heal a broken heart but how could u both leave each other
2006-08-25 22:56:52 · answer #7 · answered by sweet_hon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
open your eyes to what life is , a learning of people and there ways and what you really want to have in your life. also think how lucky you are finding before you married and had kids, it'll get better you'll see a better soul mate will come alone as long as you live for the future not the past
2006-08-25 23:03:56 · answer #8 · answered by wilco254 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
set aside a sequence time conventional to get mad, yell, scream, cry, think of or in spite of. Do it conventional and permit your self to be broken hearted in elementary terms at that factor. something of the day stay existence in spite of in case you are going to be able to desire to pretend it. As time passes you will discover that the residing your existence time is physically powerful and you pick your broken coronary heart time back to do different issues.
2016-09-30 00:26:03 · answer #9 · answered by kinjorski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of all happened, try to understand, play your favorite song, don't go out room, eat take away food for one week.
Than chat, talk and talk with your friends, meet new friend. Do anything involve with talking....
2006-08-26 00:23:46 · answer #10 · answered by Doo.ri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋