why i m so unsuccessful in finding love?

Answer 1

You are looking too hard & becoming desperate. Whether you like it or not this will show through to the other person. This is "off putting". People like a challenge, "fun of the chase" etc.
There is a little bit of truth in the saying "treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen"....by this I don't mean be really bad to the other person, just keep the mystery & the guessing going a bit.
Lastly go out, mingle but let finding someone be the last thing on your mind, infact get it right out of your mind.

Answer 2

Oh hun nobody is ever unsuccessful in love,,may take some of us longer to find wot we want in life & from life but its worth it in the end..Try to stop looking u never know they cud be right on your own doorstep!!! where do u live!!!!!

Answer 3

You're not supposed to ask. You're supposed to assume. Of course assuming makes you an as s, and that is what girls like. You never ask a girl for something. She likes it when you take charge, and then you've given her a chance to correct you. Women like to correct bold actions but not questions, which come across as wimpy. Women need to change men, so give them something to change... and being an as s is the relationship equivalent of the carpentry axiom of "better to cut too long than too short."

In the publishing business, a writer often leaves mistakes in his work on purpose in order to give the editor something to fuss over. Once the editor has pis sed in it she likes the taste better. The same thing goes for women... give them a mistake that they can edit out and then take credit for.

And remember, being bold does not mean every woman will like it. But there are women who will like your level of bold and stick with ya... but no women like wimpy. In other words, the key is to find a woman that will put up with the level of bold you are willing to pretend to be. After that, you can go back to being your sensitive self, and she will take all the credit for turning you into who you always were. In exchange for giving her ego a boost, you get to bang her. It's a win-win situation.

Answer 4

Love is a feeling towards another person if you are looking for that feeling well good luck chances are you will find yourself in a bunch of one sided relationships that go nowhere


I hate how people look for love its just somthing that happens when you get close to somone compatible to you no amount of looking for it will force it to appear

Answer 5

What are you looking for searching the right areas? Are you ready for love? Trying and focusing too hard? Take time to enjoy life, friends, family, do things you like get yourself to what you wanna be, picture the life you want why wait for it? then prehaps love will find you

Answer 6

Don't try too hard or be in a hurry for love it will happen when you least expect it to.Try going to singles dating,speed dating seems to be the latest in thing.Just relax be yourself have fun and before you know it you`ll find the perfect lady for you...but remember be careful and don't fall for the first lady who comes your way be sure that she is right for you ......Good luck.

Answer 7

Because you are probably rushing yourself thinking that every girl is the "one" and finding yourself deeply disappointed. Don't worry,this happens,you won't be by yourself for the rest of your life,you just haven't found the right one yet but one day she will walk into your life,so just be patient,it will happen when you least expect it.

Answer 8

You're not the only one. It's not just an easy journey but it's worth getting to your destination.

Answer 9

Due to lack of efforts in the desired manner.

Answer 10

join the club mate, i think its down to women having a too high expectations in todays society,short, fat, uglies like me don't stand a chance,..but i guess it's all down to nature women want tall dark ,strong,good looking men, so they can have strong healthy offspring.