when it comes to talk to your parents to get agreed for my love and they emotionally blackmail youwhich i can do also, so what do you think to whom should compromise first you or your parents?
2006-08-25 22:21:10 · 7 answers · asked by ijkl m 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
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2006-08-25 22:23:28 · answer #1 · answered by Ω Nookey™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've met the right guy for you, and you both really love each other and want to be together, DO NOT GIVE THAT UP to please your parents. At some point or other they'll get over it. Even if that takes until they need you. Parents sometimes change alot when they get older anyways, and might look back and regret having given you a hard time over this. Then you'll really regret not having taken the chance.
Let them know that you love them and that you want to please them, but that you also want them to want your happiness just as much. Be gentle with it and be there for them, and if they cut you off for awhile or resent you, then that same resentment is what you'd feel if you go their way. Continue to let them know that you're there for them but stand firm. They've had their chance and now this is yours. When it comes to who you're going to marry and father your children, it's your right to choose.
If you've found some happiness on this planet and you're not hurting anyone, then nobody has the right to infringe on that. Not even your parents. And parents owe it to their children not to rob them of any lawful happiness or opportunities.
2006-08-25 22:42:03 · answer #2 · answered by Purple 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents are the ones who comes first after God. So its upto you I'm in a similar situation and is difficult for me to convince but I'm keeping on trying.
2006-08-25 22:28:04 · answer #3 · answered by Monk Mst 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
each man or woman has his own decision. It in simple terms relies upon on how a lot you adore your moms and dads or your love. I my self married 13 yrs in the past , organic love marriage devoid of consent of human beings i left the domicile and married my love. we've 2 toddlers , thankfully married. Marriage relies upon in simple terms on how good is your information, compromise, and dedication and matter on direction of relatioship.
2016-11-27 22:21:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents have had their life. Have yours. They come around, or they don't. They should want you to be happy, in an ideal world.
2006-08-25 22:27:38 · answer #5 · answered by helixburger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-25 22:42:15 · answer #6 · answered by wisam z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should take some more english classes or get a friend to translate that into english first, then get back to us...kay?
2006-08-25 22:57:32 · answer #7 · answered by spike missing debra m 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋