What are the best ways to get over a broken heart? When does the hurting stop? plz answer.?

Question

I could use some advice people.

I'm not sure it will stop too soon cuz my ex is still around not around me tho cuz she wants me gone so she can be happy with the father of her baby. But she still talks to one of my friends and it hurts that shes still around.

Answer 1

Concern yourself with someone other than yourself. I bet Someone could really use your help right now ... Get out there ... outside yourself. Do some random acts of kindness.

Answer 2

Ok

Make a pinata of her likeness, fill it full of candy, then beat it with a wiffle bat. Sure it's kinda violent, but you're not hurting anyone plus you get candy for your efforts.
Write a will and leave her out of it. Feel smug in knowing that she will never get your prized "Dawson's Creek" trading cards.
Pick up that guitar, keyboard, ukulele, bongos, whatever - and sing your little broken heart out.
Don't drive past her house over and over again. You don't want a restraining order on your record do you? Stalking is never the answer.
On that same note, do not call her phone number and then hang up when someone answers. It's creepy, childish and silly. You have better things to do with your time. Remember the best contact is NO contact.
Don't send your younger siblings or your friends out to spy on her. If you've been replaced, you don't want to know about it.
Distract yourself by doing something you've never done before every day. This could mean walking the neighbor's dog or playing Scrabble with your mom.
Start a band. Practice in the garage.
Bake headless gingerbread men, then eat them.
Write a list of all the things that bugged you about her, and post it by your mirror. Decorate it with dried macaroni and glitter. Laugh when you look at it.

Get a new girl. You'll like her way better than this one.

Answer 3

You are not the first to hurt inside, although it may feel like it. There are no words that will help you feel better. Everyone has to go through it. However, you can choose to look at your grief differently.
Rejoice and celebrate each time your heart is broken. Only when your heart is broken can the light enter. Not until you have felt the pain of suffering can you know how others suffer. This is where you learn empathy. This is when others can look into your eyes, the windows of the soul, and see texture, wisdom, compassion, and refinement. After the experience of a broken heart you become more attractive to the world.

You are learning, growing, evolving. You are becoming better. Don't become bitter. Women are going to be very attracted to you.

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Answer 4

There's no uniform answer for how long it takes for the hurt to stop. What usually happens is over time, your thoughts move to other things. You will find that you think of that person less and less as the days go by. In time, the memories won't hurt as much. In time, your heart will mend itself. TIME, is what heals a broken heart. Take care of yourself, have fun with friends, and just allow the hurt to lesson on its own, there's nothing you can do to make it faster. Drinking will not help, having another girl too soon will only make you feel empty. Give it time, you'll see. You'll be ok.

Answer 5

Change your mind stop feeling like you lost someone that can't be replaced. The relationship is over because the relationship in your head and the one that actually existed were two different relationships. So if you take your focus off of you lost and just realize you haven't lost anything you will be just fine. Spend some time on yourself think about all the arguments and see if any of the negative things said about you were true. If so work on those things. If everything in the arguments said was a lie about you, are at least most of it and you were miss understood. Then be glad that you are out of the abusive relationship.

Answer 6

my ex bf is still around because we were friends b4 we started dating and still are friends and always will be. i feel sorry for you, i really do its not easy being a friend with an ex or having your ex involved in some part of your life. he broke my heart, it'll always be broken. Time is all you need to get over a broken heart, but for me its taking a while. The hurting will stop eventually, it all depends on how much you were hurt, and how you are at dealing with a loss

Answer 7

Sometimes it takes solitude. Rather than denying your feelings, you need to grieve. It's so easy to turn to anger, rage but this is only fear of what you have lost. Just know that in solitude, without distractions, you will find just the memory that made the whole thing worth while. It is far better to have loved and lost than to have never loved. After your grief, celebrate that moment you had with a memento... just for you. Don't ever go past that moment again. Put that memento away for another day in the distant. Start again with no predjudices and expect the next time to find your twin mate. That's more fun than even a soul mate.

Answer 8

there's alot of way to get over a broken heart the question is what are you donig to make the pain go away. I think you need to find or hang around with friends an try know different kinds of personalities so when you have the next relationship you would understand your relationships better.

Answer 9

To get over, Forget the incident. Stopping the hurt will be subsequent to the situation you have made adjustments with the life accordingly, consoled on the matter. Emotions and sentiments when applied to limited circle, everything will be in its perfect order and fine!

Answer 10

It just takes time. 3 years for me, over the last one. A girlfriend of mine says find a new man.
After she broke up with her fiance, she met a guy 6 months later, and now they are married and very happy.