me and my best frnd likes the same guy.i think i am serious about him but not she...she has a boy frnd.v both never wanted such situation but it emerged.later she told me that she doesnt feel for him so i went up with the feelings for that guy.one day by mistake she msged him bout her crush to him and even that guy admitted that he too liked her.i steped back.but now i feel that she is not doing right with that boy...even i like him deeply...plz advise how i can get that boy without hurting my frnd...my frnd comes first than that boy...its just i feel hurt when they telk infront of me...what should i do? (they r not going around but flirt as frnds)...even that boy knows that i too like him but he replied that its my infactuation and i will get over with it but i know i am being serious for him.
2006-08-25 22:03:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you're in a pretty difficult situation that many people experience.
you have to decide what is important for you.
and even if the truth hurts, it will always set you free. tell them both how you feel about them (separately, not in the same time or place).
and even if many people experienced the same start, many have different endings, both sad or happy.
good luck
2006-08-25 22:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by Busy Diyosa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way around it. I wish I could be gentle about this but it's clear you were given information by the boy and you....chose to ignore it.
The boy is not interested in you. You were brave and smart to let him know how you felt about him but he's interested in the other girl. Step back and let nature take its course between these two. When it comes to friends, a boy should never get in the way, and in this case it has.
Nothing feeds a male ego more than knowing two girls are fighting over him. Move on, he's not worth it. And your female "friend" is not much of a friend. No one sends anything by "accident". She knew your feelings as you knew hers, she wasn't stupid. She's had a boyfriend and is going to play with this boy's heart. I say, let her. They both deserve each other.
There is a boy out there that will appreciate you for you and not because you are this or that but simply because you are you. Don't give up the faith.
2006-08-25 22:10:16 · answer #2 · answered by Persephone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strike an agreement. Write it out. Add another guy to the mix. He has to find him and everyone has to agree to hang out together. Even when you do find your mate, he will probably be attracted to your girlfriend. That happens a lot. Learn to find boundries now before marriage and just be buddies for now. Flirt, have a great time. Tease and pledge to stick up for one another. The serious vows come later. Just play but don't get preggie or spread disease. Live a little.
2006-08-25 22:15:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it love you really feel...? if so, just tell him and tell your friend...
Mostly you will loose one of them... remember, love can everything so, it may come first... friends are many in a lifetime as for love, only one.
If you believe he is the one, do as necessary to pursue your happiness, life is too short to concern about what your friends may think about you been happy and specially been in loved!!!
If you are not serious about him, step away and let them grow their love... remember: you shouldn't do to others what you wouldn't like the others doing to you!!!
Finally, if the two of you are not serious or in loved with him, even discuss it and enjoy sharing him, men we don't care about it...
Have fun and enjoy... that comes first!!!
2006-08-25 22:14:35 · answer #4 · answered by alexnaturals 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has a boyfriend,she didn't have any business liking that guy in the first place,she is just being greedy. But if I was you,I would just step back because that is a love triangle.
2006-08-25 22:09:21 · answer #5 · answered by T.Mack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok for starters you're saying your not into his chum, then why in hell are you thinking courting him over the guy you're in touch in? That makes no experience in any respect...this isn't a love triangle because you do not look after each and each of the activities you're in basic terms seeking to be in some form of interest from those adult men. recuperate from your self heavily...do not' play video games and do not' submit stupid courting head sport questions in the marriage class...
2016-11-27 22:19:45 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am not quite sure if I am getting you right... :(
2006-08-25 22:16:11 · answer #7 · answered by sexy_mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write in English, please. I can't make heads or tails of that babble.
2006-08-25 22:07:58 · answer #8 · answered by ladybugewa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3smoe is good
2006-08-25 22:06:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe rectangle!
2006-08-25 22:07:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋