my boyrnd he's got baby with someone else he told me when we first meet.this weekend he told me he's going to spent the weekend with his daugther at his exgirlfriend house and me l must go and hire movies and sit at home. so we have been fighting about this and he's saying am acting like a baby. so l don't even no wht to do.
2006-08-25 20:52:32 · 16 answers · asked by holy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-08-25 20:54:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur yes n no in being wrong. If hes going over there to c his daughter its coo cuz dads need to spend time w there kidz. Its good to hear a guy wanting to spend time w them. U dont hear that a lot now n these days. I'm pretty sure the ex is going to be there. It is her house. You should be a bit worried about the ex. U just never know what could happen. But if u trust ur man nothing will happend. I'm hoping u've told him how u feel. I think u have n dats y u guys argue. Just trust him n then wait n c what happends. Tell him that he's just going to visit her baby n not her. If something happens well leave his ***.
2006-08-26 04:13:43 · answer #2 · answered by DeeNess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, take a deep breath. You sound like I do when I become frustrated. Second, do you trust him? I am a mother and when my oldest was a baby I didn't let him out of my sight, not even to visit with his father. It wasn't that I didn't trust his father it's just that he was my baby and I was terrified if he wasn't with me 24/7 something bad would happen to him. Some mom's are like that, especially with their first. Maybe this is how your boyfriend's baby's mother is, just overprotective and your boyfriend is just trying to make the best of the situation. As the baby grows older and this continues, sit down and have a heart to heart discussion with your boyfriend about the situation.
2006-08-26 03:59:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get another boyfriend and forget about this one. This is a no win situation he has already let you know he is a cheater. He's just lying and you know it that's why you been fussing. Girl know the truth respect yourself and move on. That girlfriend you call ex girlfriend is not really the ex girlfriend I'm sure if you could talk to her she would be shocked to know you are suppose to be his girl. You don't spend the weekend with ex's you spend the weekend with your girl. Oh by the way be angry and not stupid I know he's not all that.
2006-08-26 04:03:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all. he should understand that you do not want him to spend the weekend (which, let me remind you all, involves staying the night.) over some exgirlfriends house, (which, let me remind you yet again, that they obviously couldnt handle not having sex while they were together.. i.e. baby..) while you sit at home watching failure to launch. you should explain that to him. calmly, not whiny, because that will make him want to leave even more. maybe you could ask him if you could come along.
i hope things work out..
god bless.
2006-08-26 03:59:45 · answer #5 · answered by katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you ar most deff. not wrong to be mad...if really cared about you or loved you we would never spent the weekend at his ex's house because that shows that he disrespects you, and is prolly cheating on you with his ex, you believe it or not i had a similar situation happen to me.. and i dumped him in a heart beat cuz he cheated with his ex.
2006-08-26 04:45:17 · answer #6 · answered by inked_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,you have every right to be angry he doesn't haveto spend the night with his ex to spend time with his child my boyfriend has a child she spends the night with him. without the ex .you should stop the stressing and find yourself a good man that's gonna do right by you,and remember this ,you let it pass now he'll continue this , so move on
2006-08-26 04:08:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you be angry? You are in control of your emotions aren't you? So quit being angry and go ahead to do what you feel like doing, if you do not wish to do what your b/f has suggested.
What is stopping you?
2006-08-26 03:57:53 · answer #8 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not wrong for getting mad......is not that you don't trust him, but really don't trust her and you don't know what her intentions are. it maybe over for good for him but for her there maybe something there and this is her way to try to get him back. we women play many game to get ehat we want and the thing is that he doesn't see it and if he does then he is acting stupid. he could brign the child to your place to the night instead of going to sleep at his ex'x place. you have all right to be mad
2006-08-26 04:03:28 · answer #9 · answered by kikul3204 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think your being childish at least he was upfront with you about his child if you dont trust him than you shouldn't be in a realtionship but if you do give him the benifit of the doubt be might be telling the truth. good luck
2006-08-26 04:01:56 · answer #10 · answered by ELLE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, find another boyfriend. He is two-timing you. In other words, he is seeing his ex girlfirend under the guise that he is spending time with his daugher. Dump this loser and move on. Trust me on this one.
2006-08-26 03:56:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋