to any girl on here i am a guy with a problem and nedde some advice, i'm trying to get a girl i have had a crush on since high school to go out with me and i love her with all my heart but i'm affraid to say anything to her becuase my luck with women is bad... it seems like just when i fall in love with a woman they breakup with me.... but i wanna give my old high school flame a chance what should i do??? should i ask her out or not????10 points for best awenser....
2006-08-25 20:45:20 · 10 answers · asked by geostrom b 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i mean if u really feel in your heart thats shes the one take another leap of faith and go for it....i say its better to get it out then to hold those type of feelings inside and let it get bottled up.the chance you take may be worth it.good luck
2006-08-25 20:51:36 · answer #1 · answered by Theresa J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AT A VERY OUTSET LET ME TELL U TO IMPROVE U R KNOWLEDGE ABOUT LOVE, from what u ve written it seems u are just wandering in the dream land., and u r fantasies has cropped up with this question. Love is not some thing where u ve to fall again and again, if u have a crush on this girl from school days, why u tried out u r luck with other woman, sorry to say friend., but first get sure of what u want to do and what u are saying, if that sentence of luck with woman is removed , u r question still demands maturity of sorts, any way, love is not an one sided affair, so unless and until u convey it to the girl and if she accepts u r proposal, then comes question of loving and not loving., so, get be friendly with the girl, then open u r heart to her if she accepts u are on the right track
2006-08-26 03:59:01 · answer #2 · answered by dhansuma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buddy, you can't be in love with someone whom you barely know. If you have had a crush on her since high school fine, but you cannot be in love with her. And really, why are you asking us? Aren't you old enough at this point to decide whether to ask out this woman? I think you are VERY afraid of rejection and we cannot help you with that. Also, you state that you have bad luck with women after you fall in love with one. Have you ever stopped to consider HER feelings, or do you just plunge headlong into the relationship and then get hurt when things don't work out? Ask her and see what she says. The world will keep on revolving if it's no, but you should really find out whay you are having trouble with relationships of this type.
2006-08-26 03:50:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe girls break up with you once you get a little clingy and keep telling them you love them sooo much...so if you want this to work talk you time to get to know the girl be her best friend let her know you can trust her, show her you care and flirt from time to time...she'll fall for ya well hopefully
2006-08-26 03:50:51 · answer #4 · answered by Taylor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Doctor, I get clingy sometimes and that ends a relationship in a hurry unfortunately. Anywho, haha, give it a chance. Your old so hurry up and get moving or else your never going to get married haha anyways, im in highschool ciao
2006-08-26 04:29:31 · answer #5 · answered by JO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to go out casually like for cofee or a movie and see where that goes if she seem into you say something like " Hey this is a lot of fun lets do this more often" and ask for her number if she give it too you great if not she probably not interested.
good luck
2006-08-26 03:51:02 · answer #6 · answered by ELLE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should ask her 4 a date when she's alone n surely she'll agreed n 2 make a relationship last long u must noe how 2 take care their hearts n hope u succed
2006-08-26 03:51:26 · answer #7 · answered by amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should definitely make the first move, dude. girls love that, it makes them feel like.. well.. it makes them feel like women. and any man knows that making a girl swoon is pretty much the best thing you could possibly do... my advice, take this girl, and admire her as a challenge, maybe she's the one.
never let your past get in the way of anything.
god bless.
2006-08-26 03:51:50 · answer #8 · answered by katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and make sure you don't make comments that will offend her. Ask her nicely and be honest.Send her flowers or maybe write her a song or poem. Make sure you tell her what you feel about her and she will accept you for who you are. I am sure you are a great guy and remember to trust yor feelings.
2006-08-26 03:54:15 · answer #9 · answered by Manapazza 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her out and hope 4 the best!
2006-08-26 03:52:34 · answer #10 · answered by sexy girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋