I mean if they are both single and do it just for fun
Is that wrong and if so why?
2006-08-25 20:33:05 · 26 answers · asked by whatnow1976 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you violate your marriage vows, you violate your family vows...And, if you have children, think how legitimate that hug and kiss really is to your child as well as it is to your spouse.
Always remember, a spouse could always find someone else after a separation or divorce and you become a memory, but to a child...well, how do you divorce a child ?
2006-08-25 20:47:59 · answer #1 · answered by marnefirstinfantry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex outside marriage is wrong. I wonder what else you want for an answer. In any case, Singles doing it for fun is not actually fun but experimenting with very dire consequencies. These include: sin against God, HIV/AIDS, STD, heart break, unwanted pregnancies which can affect your education and career, single parenthood,etc
For Chist's sake, what is difficult in chanelling your 'sexual energy' towards productive sectors of the country? Focus your mind,occupy it with decent thoughts and you will not fulfill the desires of the flesh.
Keep yourself till you are married. If you cant hold on, then get married and satisfy your desires appropriately.
2006-08-26 03:48:05 · answer #2 · answered by mirch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes sex outside marriage is still wrong, and will always be wrong. Your question doesn't make sense though, how can they both be single and married at the same time? Unless of course you are talking about the people they are sleeping with. It is wrong because when you marry someone, you commit yourself, body, mind, and spirit, to them. If you can't remain faithful to one person, you shouldn't get married.
2006-08-26 03:37:04 · answer #3 · answered by justwondering 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes becuz sex is not for fun it is a union of another person spirit and is nothing to be taken lightly........if you are not married but u seriously intend on marrying the person then it is ok but not for fun that is a NO NO.
2006-08-26 03:48:54 · answer #4 · answered by exceptionallyexceptional 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES. That is sexual immorality and could keep you from entering heaven. what if you do have sex and you don't get married. and later she gets married. you have defrauded that guy from having a pure wife. Think about this .. what if that guy is you. Repent from those ideas and thoughts and give your heart to Christ who can truly fulfill you. ASK a true believer
2006-08-26 03:41:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marraige is just paper. The question should be "is sex without love wrong?" What do you feel in your heart? How do you feel after sex is over? If it feels right to you it's probably okay.
2006-08-26 03:54:03 · answer #6 · answered by Jacqueline 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WRONG ???!!!! , Some countries its a capital PUNISHMENT !!! , Imagine if all people do this sort of thing,,, How about if you are in a loving relationship and you partner "gets somethin on the side" , Will keep quiet and smile ???
2006-08-26 03:43:37 · answer #7 · answered by OverDose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Whatever 2 consenting single adults wish to do together is not wrong. Even if they are not single, its not wrong, just cruel to their significant others.
2006-08-26 03:38:51 · answer #8 · answered by micki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you want and live your life to the fullest each day. Live you life like it's the last day you'll have. Never look back and always make choices for yourself and not others.
2006-08-26 03:36:17 · answer #9 · answered by bookizzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesn't that just defeat the purpose of being married in the first place?? i don't get why people even bother getting married if they still want to sleep around. seems like common sense to me....
2006-08-26 03:41:23 · answer #10 · answered by origchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋