Well, i met this guy online and i met him in real life, he moved to my city to be with me. he broke up with me last weekend and said some real mean things that i could never picture him saying to me. and then he calls me two days later like nothing happened, telling me he cares about me but i dont believe him + he cant just erase with little words how he treated me that weeken he broke up and the horrible things he said. the problem is i still like him and care about him and i wish he would get on his knees and tell me sorry for everything but i doubt he will. what should i do? how can i forget someone i care about so much? :(
2006-08-25 20:27:30 · 15 answers · asked by chinita 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys like him only care about themselves, they are so selfish you can't believe it. They never think of other people's feelings. I know is hard but you deserve better than this. You will find someone who is more loving, caring and most of all not selfish. Just give your self time you will be fine. Cause if you go on thinking he will be alright someday you will end up having a low self-esteem and that will be letting him abuse you emotionally.
2006-08-25 20:35:55 · answer #1 · answered by Martha M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey i had the same problem and i loved him so much but ive moved on now and still say hello and stuff but he said sum nasty stuff 2 me..... but dont give up hope
i think he did like u a lot but when things move too quickly they get a little scared ...... i think u should email him and just say can we talk ..... tell him how u feel and that he hurt u...
tell him u still care but u wont be hurt like that again!and if hes still being a idiot try getting a guy that will treat u better u deserve 2 be treated better ,,,,, u go girl good luck
2006-08-26 03:35:07 · answer #2 · answered by Maria N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. If he really loves you he will think twice to hurt you. You are saying that you cares for him but I think its that you just cant accept the fact someone is missing in your life
I m sure with God's blessing you will soon find someone better than him. Why cry over someone who never really care.
Be happy meet new frens . Good LUck & God Bless
2006-08-26 03:33:42 · answer #3 · answered by angelinecja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm having the same issue with my ex not the whole he moved to another city to be with me and I din't meat him on the iternet.But I dumped him and he said really mean things to all our friends but I haven't heard from him.Only you can decide what to do with your life,if you say that your relationship is worth forgiving him then your mind is madeup but I don' think that guy who goes from a jerk to normal in a couple days is a healthy relationship this is looking to be one of those dating violence or domestic violence guys he just hasn't started the control/hurt/forgive cycle.I say run.run.run.run asap as far as possible.
2006-08-26 03:36:03 · answer #4 · answered by movin12006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to your first question, yes, i know that even if he did say all those hurtful things, he cared about you. But what you should do is move on with your life. Talk it out with someone, some times that helps out a lot.
2006-08-26 03:34:02 · answer #5 · answered by Seraphiel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy! Get with someone who doesn't say mean things to you and stop dating over the internet. There are too many crazies around here.
2006-08-26 03:31:47 · answer #6 · answered by Fort Worth, TX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter now. all you will do is ask yourself the same questions and never move on. it will be hard, but get the he!! over this guy. he is an emotional abuser and if you let him keep it up, it will trn into more
2006-08-26 03:33:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make it simply for your self eiter u question him or just leave. persoanl i'd try to understand why first b4 i make a hasty decsion but if you just broke up witn him then try to find out why he did or said the things he said to you
hope this helps
2006-08-26 03:34:00 · answer #8 · answered by fox murder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run the other way! This guy seems like an abuser.
2006-08-26 04:05:33 · answer #9 · answered by mnela2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him excactly how his word maid you feel and give him a chance to explain himself if he doesn't understand or appoligize move one!
2006-08-26 03:38:07 · answer #10 · answered by ELLE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋