My baby daddy and I have been enemies for since my fourth month of pregnancy. We used to be close until his mom came between us. Our daughter is now 6 years old. My problem is he got married when she was a year old. Him and his wife were having problems ever since. Me and him are beginning to get along now . We are even having sex again. I want to be with him and he says he still has feelings for me but he loves his wife and wants to work on things with her. They have been legally seperated for the most part of their marriage. It's driving me crazy because I know we can make it. He loves being around me and I him. Him and his wife havent had sex in about 6months but she still comes around sometimes. Im in love with him deeply and dont know what to do. He wont get a divorce and its obvious his wife doesnt love him. Im lost please help.
2006-08-25 20:17:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seriously you need to end the relationship now .. move on with someone that will treat you right and give you the respect you deserve. He isn't and hasn't been available to you since he married the other girl.
Wishing you happiness - Hugs Mel
2006-08-25 20:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. Men are like busses, a new one comes around every 10-15 mins. Why worry about just one. Dont wait. You need to move forward. This is probably just as confusing for your daughter as it is for you. If his wife doesnt love him that is his problem. He will realize it someday. If he wanted to be with you, he would be. If you keep sleeping with him, he is going to think that its okay to just come around whenever. You are obviously a caring person and dont deserve that. There are wesbites out there for single parents who want to meet other single parents, if you really want someone in your life who is, well, single. Take care and good luck.
2006-08-25 20:32:38 · answer #2 · answered by Brandy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any man who has sex with yiou and will not leave his wife has some emotional problems.
The man has a problem with commitment. I think that you 2 will have trouble no matter what until he addresses his issue.
We know he has an issue because he has had a baby with you and then a new wife and now he's having sex with you. the man has no idea what commitmnet means.
Good luck,
-R
2006-08-25 20:25:10 · answer #3 · answered by Rustomji 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, this just isn't going to work out. By continuing to wait around for him, you are denying yourself a good relationship with a good SINGLE man.
and you are setting a TERRIBLE example for your daughter.
2006-08-25 20:24:01 · answer #4 · answered by shomechely 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are being used by your "ex" move on with your life before you get totally lost.
2006-08-25 20:30:35 · answer #5 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say this but u stupid for even having sex with him in the first place while he is married........am sick of women doing stupid things and calling it love and then when it blows up in their face they want to blame the man.
2006-08-25 20:37:06 · answer #6 · answered by exceptionallyexceptional 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
id say if he cant make a decission between you two move on
2006-08-25 20:24:38 · answer #7 · answered by WIZZARD 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
there is a reason he is called your ex.....just add an "S"
and thats the only reason
2006-08-25 20:27:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2006-08-25 20:21:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
hell, I'd say him being married is your first clue.
2006-08-25 20:26:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋