i know its a silly question but i have kept in contact with someone i met in 2000 and we still talk today ,we got numbers and each other passwords and everything we just never met. is anybody out there like this
2006-08-25 20:03:13 · 19 answers · asked by ciara l 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to remember that people can say anything, pretend to be anything online. Just look at how many online perverts and pedophiles who trick children and who are fortunately being monitered by online security and detected.
So a word of warning to you. People are not always as they seem to be. The can create illusions. Only yesterday I read a story or a lady 'who fell in love' with a guy online, they had built up an online relationship over some months. He lived in the UK, she in the US. He invited her to visit, and she really thought he was "the one'. When they met he turned out to be totally different He was quiet, aloof, shy, undecisive cold. He did not suggest taking her anywhere, she felt most uncomfortable, shut out. He practically ignored her.
He was like a totally different man to the one she had been interacting with for months online. She felt she had been conned, tricked, abused. He was just a coward and a fraud. However she stayed on, and did manage to enjoy herself, fortunately she had a friend who accommodated her and she made the most of her visit. The guy then emailed her and asked if she still wanted to be friends, but she ignored him blocked him. So this is an example of how people are not what they always pretend to be. So be very careful. it's best to get to know someine in real life as opposed to an imaginary one online.BTW it's not a good idea to let anyone have access to your password, especially an online acquaintence, because that is what they are before you get to know them, just an online acquaintance.
2006-08-25 20:15:43 · answer #1 · answered by Carrie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It happened to me. I met this guy for 3 years on the net, before meeting him in person. We still love each other, but distance played some weird tricks on us.
2006-08-26 04:12:41 · answer #2 · answered by mnela2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think over the web alone is love b/c u need to be attracted 2 each other and b able to spend time together
2006-08-26 03:10:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
me? well, i think it is not imposible if ever you fall in love over the net, but on my experience it's hard to fall in love but i can easily admired or have an affection to someone over the net.
2006-08-26 03:10:56 · answer #4 · answered by sabersbest 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had liked someone from the net. but only after we have met in person. :)
2006-08-26 03:07:56 · answer #5 · answered by Grasshopper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, a fantasy is just that...I prefer the real deal and looking into someones eyes.
2006-08-26 03:05:55 · answer #6 · answered by jodie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once, it was by far the worst experiance yet so magnificently beautiful at the same time. but most of the time it dosnt work out, especially if she dosnt live near you.
2006-08-26 03:08:46 · answer #7 · answered by Seraphiel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yea....it's dangerous too. Because you think you can tell them anything because your not really seeing them face to face and you become less intimidated. Is it fun? Sure.!!! Can it work? YES!!!
But it's also dangerous, because you can't focus on your real life.
2006-08-26 03:07:51 · answer #8 · answered by Dorothy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i did. i loved her so much i would have done anything and it broke my heart when i was unable to contact her again i still love her and wish she was here
2006-08-26 03:08:06 · answer #9 · answered by ACER 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i know my gfs passwords n stuff, i dont use them... but yea ive fallen for her bad
im in new zealand shes in cali
2006-08-26 03:05:58 · answer #10 · answered by i_love_orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋