How do you talk to someone who is dead?
Cause I really want to talk to my grandmother who is dead for 7 years now. We were really close, then she died in heart attack when she was ironing her clothes(She isn't that old not to iron her clothes). Anyway when she died I was crying for 4 months, no one can talk to me or nothing. And I want to talk to her so bad. If anyone can helr me. Please reply.
2006-08-25 19:53:57 · 11 answers · asked by rising1_star 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
You don't. You remember them with love, share memories with others, talk about them with family and friends. I understand your pain at losing your grandmother, but she would want you to live happily without her physical presence, just to remember the good things and go on with your own life. I'm sure she too lost people she loved, but that didn't stop her enjoying the here and now while she was alive. Rejoice that you had a loving grandma and live in such a way as to create such happy memories for others when you have moved on.
2006-08-25 19:59:50 · answer #1 · answered by anna 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ok, this is coming from one of those non-believer types, so I'm being totally honest with my own personal individual opinion...
Honestly, we have experienced things over the years that have hinted at something past this life. The most clear and obvious happened to be from a cat we lost young. I don't believe in gods or heavens, but maybe some survival of energy or some part of someone.
I will tell you honestly that two winters ago I was sitting in this cold computer room, wishing the heat would kick on. Out of nowhere I felt this brush of warm air on the right side of my face for a moment, like breath-warm. Hoping the heat had come on and that I somehow felt a draft from the vent, I leaned over twice to try to hear and feel if it came on. Nothing, it was cold. I sat back up saying 'then what was that...?' And in reality there is no way I could have felt a draft through the computer cabinet at this angle anyhow. I have no idea what or who, but I have my hopes and feelings that I might know. And he would be one that I have just simply talked to since he's been gone. Whether he can hear me or not, but there have been moments in the past two and a half years that have made me really think that he knows. Nothing clear as day and totally obvious like hearing the cat, and maybe he can't, but I think or at least hope he knows.
So just talk to her. If there is any continued existence in any form, if she's around, then there is no reason she shouldn't just simply be able to hear you. I don't think people need 'psychics or 'mediums' or anything else but their own words. You were the one with the connection to her, and that should be well more then what a 'medium' could ever pretend to have. So just talk to her.
2006-08-26 03:52:49 · answer #2 · answered by Indigo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you attract a loved one, who is deceased?
There are a lot of ways to connect with the deceased. You have to find what works for you. Lighting candles, saying prayers, meditation, and simply holding something of your grandma's. You have many things of her's so that won't be too difficult. I would bet it wouldn't be very difficult to talk with her and I'm willing to bet your grandmother has been contacting you and you just don't know it. You don't need to go to a Medium, psychic, or anyone... just go within and let God know what you want.
2006-08-26 03:17:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would write a letter to your grandmother and burn it with the intention that the smoke would rise and carry your message.
A less messy version: I'll light a stick of incense and talk to the person I miss and hope that the smoke carries my messages.
You (most likely) won't get a response, but it helps you grieve and center yourself. It is also a chance for you to say things you never got to say or want to say.
(This isn't a type of conjuring or making a spirit/soul come to you. This is just a way for you to talk about or write out what you want to share and a way to "send" those messages.)
2006-08-26 02:59:31 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. Pears 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You can contact a medium through a Spiritist Center. Depending on where you live this can be done through several ways. Brazil has many centers where messages can be sent and received. In the United States you may want to contact the spiritist groups I've listed below.
Godspeed to you and I hope you find the answers you seek.
2006-08-26 03:55:45 · answer #5 · answered by Joe Carioca 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Often People say they have talked with the dead. The late James A Pike, a prominent Episcoplian bishop, said he talked with his dead son Jim. According to Pike, his son told him: "I have masses of people around me, and hands lifting me up, as it were.....I was so unhappy untill I could make you know."
Since such experiences are so common, it is evident that many people have spoken to someone from the spirit world. But they have not talked with the dead, The Bible is very clear when it says:"As for the dead, they are conscious of nothing at all."(Eclesiastes9:5) So if it is not the dead who are speaking from the spirit world, who are speaking? Who are pretending to be dead persons?
Wicked spirits are. These spirits or demons, are angels who joined Satan in rebellion against God. Why do they pretend to be persons who have died? It is to advance the idea that the dead are still living. Wicked spirits have also lead many to believe the lie that death is only a change to another life. To spread this lie, wicked spirits provide spirit mediums, fortune tellers and sorcerrs with special knowledge that only seems to come from persons who have died. So please keep away from those because they are used by wicked spirits and you will only get more heartache by listening to them, wicked spirits are wicked, and they only want you to miss seeing your loved one again where as God promised he would bring back to life dead loved ones! So your better option would be to turn to God and get help from him instead!
2006-08-26 03:00:26 · answer #6 · answered by I speak Truth 6 · 2⤊ 3⤋
You don't. They are asleep in their graves not to be awoken until Jesus returns. Anyone or anything that tells you otherwise is using demonic forces to fool you. Be careful of that stuff!
My advice would be to pray for her soul, that God is with her as she rests in peace-and then just try to live your life in a way you think would have pleased her. =) and maybe create a memory book of her.
2006-08-26 02:57:24 · answer #7 · answered by gracefully_saved 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋
the bible says that contacting the dead is a sin! And what happends is that you dont get the person you get a spirit or demon trying to trick you into beleiving its them! It knows things because it has been here the whole time!
2006-08-26 02:58:05 · answer #8 · answered by bungyow 5 · 1⤊ 5⤋
She is dead, you can't talk to her, its time to get over it now, and get on with your life.
2006-08-26 03:00:31 · answer #9 · answered by judy_r8 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
What do you think it would accomplish? Other than feeling a bit better.
2006-08-26 02:56:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋