now that i have ur attention can u help
love this guy and always have he liked me i liked him but the other day my friend beat me 2 him he said he still has feelings to me but cant reject her i really like him wat should i do if they break up and he dumps her for me she will get upset at both of us but the problem is SHE KNEW I LIKED HIM so now im angry at her
2006-08-25 19:35:12 · 18 answers · asked by EMO 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey you might not wanna hear this but...if this guy truly had feelings for you, he'd be able to let your friend down easy. I mean it either shows that he's a bit spineless and can't say no, or he doesn't want your friend hurt. So the best thing to do is to wait it out for a while, see if they start to get really into each other, but make it clear that you still have a bit of a thing for him. If he knows what's good for him he'll be able to break it off with your friend easy. If your friend becomes upset tell her how it felt when she hooked up with the guy you liked.
2006-08-25 19:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by LalaLola 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it is truly just that she got there first, just wait. If there was no real interest between them, it won't last and she'll only be upset a little while if you go out with him after she gets tired of him. If they really do like each other a lot, then you may be out of luck.
Next time jump in there before she has a chance.
2006-08-26 02:44:34 · answer #2 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like this guy, tell him. He will now know that you are interested in him. You can still be friends in the mean time. When he breaks up with your other so-called friend, you can now go out with him. Patients is the name of the game.
2006-08-26 02:42:53 · answer #3 · answered by Brad C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you're tricky...you got me in here under false pretenses. My lawyer will call your lawyer.
Second, she's probably a better catch than you are, simply because she understands the value of a period in sentence structure. I did see your overuse of exclaimation points, and the misuse of the question mark. Ahh, how proud your parents must be of your education. Dem's tax dollas dey ain't gittin bak!
Let me axe you a question: Is she hot? Cause I'll break 'em up for ya.
2006-08-26 02:43:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ditch them both. She is not a friend if she would go out with a guy who she knows you like so much. I wouldnt waste my time with that guy because he basically told you that he is dating her just becuase she asked. If he really liked you, he would of ask you out instead of going out with her.
2006-08-26 02:44:26 · answer #5 · answered by ssshhhhhh 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have a ligitimate reason to be angry. If he dumps her and you go out with him she will probably be just as angry at you as you are at her.
2006-08-26 02:39:27 · answer #6 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn you and your seductive deception, lol.
If the guy really wants to be with you, rather than her, I'd say go for it, your friend will understand eventually, and besides does she really want to be with him if he's think about you?
2006-08-26 02:39:47 · answer #7 · answered by NinjaPirate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She didn't consider your feelings when she got with him, knowing full well how much you liked him, so you don't need to consider her feelings if you end up with him later. Don't worry about her.
2006-08-26 02:45:19 · answer #8 · answered by Purple 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, u should be angry with yourself for even considering a guy like this. if he can do it to her gf, he can also do it to u.. its just a matter of time, darling!
2006-08-26 02:38:57 · answer #9 · answered by The Punisher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget her just get what you want. All is fair in love and war/.
2006-08-26 02:37:34 · answer #10 · answered by Brettski 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋