my boyfriend is 18 we have 1 kid and 1 on the way but he still dosent want to grow up what should i do about i

Question

what should i do i have tried to talk to him can anything make him snap

Answer 1

plz DONT HAVE ANYMORE BABIES, AND DONT LEAVE HIM, HE IS 18 BUT HE WILL GROW UP IN PROBABLY 4 YEARS, STAY TOGETHER FOR THE KID(S), UR CHILD WILL GROW UP HE/SHE WONT HAVE A FATHER TO GUIDE HIM/HER, AND IM NOT TALKING ABOUT A STEP FATHER, THAT WILL JUST MAKE THINGS WORSE AND MORE COMPLICATED FOR THE CHILD. I HOPE U DONT WANT TO IMAGINE YOUR CHILD SMOKING POT AND DOING DRUGS,AND FLUNKING OUT OF SCHOOL. 35% OF PPL IN USA HAVE BEEN MOLESTED AS CHILDREN BY THEIR STEP FATHERS. IF U CARE FOR UR CHILD AND WANT HIM/HER TO HAVE A HAPPY FRUITFUL LIFE WHEN THEY GROW UP, THEN PLZ STAY TOGETHER. DONT LISTEN TO OTHERS STUPID SUGGESTIONS SUCH AS "DUMP HIS A SS".

Answer 2

Be patient and pray for him to grow up. Men do finally grow up after a while just give him some time he's only 18 "you chose him, not me" says Judge Judy.
America has the highest rate for divorce because most people run at every problem. I think people should stay together more and only leave if theres physical abuse, or adultry.

Answer 3

If he is 18 I am guessing you are his age or younger. First, men don't grow up until they are well into their thirties so, you've got a long wait! Second, QUIT HAVING BABIES, DO SOMETHING WITH "YOUR" LIFE, GROW UP YOURSELF and quit worrying about what "your boyfriend" is doing. You are both still children! Worse yet, you are children having children! What the hell are you thinking? When "you" grow up you will have outgrown your "boyfriend" and his immaturity but there will still be children to raise, care and provide for and,no doubt, you will be doing that without your "boyfriend." You are headed for a quick crash course on being a grown-up. I hope for your children's sake you get it right.

Answer 4

I know you proabably love him, but more than likely it will be a long time before he is ready to grow up. As long as he doens't want to grow up, he's only going to drag you down, and make it more difficult to do what you have to do. I understand that is may be hard, but you need to let him know- either he learns to act more responsibly, or you will take the children and leave. It won't be easy, but you have to what is good for both you and your children, and if he is making life more difficult than it absolutely ahs to be, then you need to lose him.

Answer 5

.. just dumb him and be a single parents with your child.. his worth nothing, it seem to me his not really a grown up person.. just forget about him.. and who made you have this child at the start. if you both agree at the start not to have it why not use those pills to stop giving birth, otherwise dont bother with him and walk out the door, where you would been single and happy finding someone else who can have kids with and love you and is grown up.. move on ..

Answer 6

First, I suggest you stop having babies. You are way too young and immature. Stop sleeping with him until you grow up and get a job. Hope this helps.

Answer 7

Your persistant nagging will probably make him snap. I don't even know you and I want to get away from you. Obviously, sex is the only thing that will shut you up.

You know, they know what causes pregnancy now...and there's a cure.

Answer 8

Nothing you do or say will change ur boyfriend, he has to do that himself. Which may take a while or may not even happen. You cant force a person to change. Theres nothing you can do, unless you left to find a better person.

Answer 9

well maybe he should grow up since he will soon have two kids but a normal 18 year wouldnt grow up so dont expect him to just because he should.

Answer 10

Kids are very important, and they need a strong man you need to make that important to you for your kids and leave him to grow up, they need you right now and he needs to back you up.