ive just started seeing this lovely guy!!! we were mates b4 as i met him through trying to txt my ex ..... we have decided that we liked each other 2 much and wanted 2 b more...
but he works long hours and just wants 2 go home and sleep or go out with his mates .... i understand that but its always me making the effort i say let s go out some where 2gether we dont spend any time 2gether but when we do he holds me in his arms 4 hours and kisses me i have told him how i feel but he just get upset with me..for even saying r u a shamed 2 be seen with me..becus we meet every time at my flat..i
i like him very much and dont want to lose him wot should i do ???
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2006-08-25 19:34:27 · 6 answers · asked by Maria N 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let him be like this search for another dude who can full fill all your wild desires.
2006-08-25 20:53:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might really be busy, tired, etc. But whatever his reason is, don't make the mistake of being so available to him. I'm not at all saying to ignore him, but just don't be so available. He'll get the message that you've got a schedule and a life too and he'll make more of an effort to find the time to spend with you. One of the reasons he isn't making the effort now might be because your constant availability to him gives him no reason to.
2006-08-26 04:40:21 · answer #2 · answered by Purple 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u r just a **** buddy and nothing else.. face the truth.
dotn fall in love with a guy like this. make him just ur **** buddy.
One of the signs that u r wasting ur time with a guy is when you should be doing the calling and arranging of dates with him when he doesnt even care.
and i bet, those sms msgs u accidentally sent out to him gave u away as a vulnerable person....
give some thought to it and stop wasting ur time; unless u also want him just for the sex part.
2006-08-26 02:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by The Punisher 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
...just tell him that you love him and i hope he will soon talk to you and why not text him a sms message to his cell phone saying that you miss him and love to see him, just one hour of his time wont hurt and give him a call one awhile and ask him hows work etc and make him feel love because you seem to care about him and im surly he wont go anywhere without knowing that your one special girl.. good luck
2006-08-26 02:37:55 · answer #4 · answered by SimileyDaisy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy is embrassed to be seen with you.. hes sort of a jerk.. u should let him go..
but u could also
have a nice dinner at ur home
2006-08-26 02:37:28 · answer #5 · answered by DK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sheesh....call me...im me even
2006-08-26 02:44:57 · answer #6 · answered by papichulo_35 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋