I have been dating this guy for almost 2 months and his ex girlfriend is desperatly trying everything she can to get him back. Example: He was at his brother's house tonight and got drunk, she came over and was trying to take advantage of him but he didn't respond to her. He has witness' who were there that said he didn't do anything with her. I believe him and the other people but I have been trying to get him to tell her that she needs to leave him and me alone but he says he doesn't want to be mean to her. I say screw being nice. WHAT DO I DO?
2006-08-25 19:32:37 · 15 answers · asked by princess_btch01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you tell her whats up. go up to her and tell her you didnt mess with her man when they were going out, so she should back off too. he's yours know so she can get over it.
2006-08-25 19:35:40 · answer #1 · answered by suppp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He and He alone needs to take of this.
She will only accept and know that he has moved on when it comes out of his mouth. This should be done soon before more feelings are hurt and cause unneed trouble for the both of you. Telling someone the truth is not mean, its the right thing to do for her. by not doing so, he is misleading her. and that is mean.
2006-08-26 02:45:25 · answer #2 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your "BOY"friend to grow some balls and choose which lady he wants to be with. If it is you he needs to kick her to the curb, but it sounds like he wants all the attention and none of the responsibility. If you two were meant to be together he would send her packing, she is his old garbage, not yours. Step back and get a good look at the situation, he may not want her to go, it could be his back-up booty call. ( Remember his buds are always going to support his story.)
2006-08-26 02:43:48 · answer #3 · answered by freddie m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be grateful that you have a man that is faithful to you.
Don't let his ex- bother you. Remember he had chosen you over her, what more could you possibly ask for. You are the one who has the best deal out of this.
Remember his ex- is already out on the curb. Just spend good quality time with him whenever he ask you out. Enjoy his attention, and all he will ever think about is you.
2006-08-26 02:41:02 · answer #4 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your bf should tell her to back off and that what they had in the past, well, stays in the past. They broke for a reason, and now he's with someone else, and that he won't like any advances from her.
Well, its what he should do. Being firm is different than being mean. Being mean is hitting her, or using her because he can.
2006-08-26 02:40:23 · answer #5 · answered by Roberto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think ur bf is telling the truth he likes u very much .he wants 2 be with u !!! :)..
think on the bright side he is with u now and not back with her honey...i think u should just blank her and think about ur relationship ... 2gether because if not it will destroy ur relationship and leave u feeling more upset shes not worth it... its still fresh on her mind and thats why shes trying 2 win him back give it time and anore her behavour and she will get the message and move on...
i no its hard tho....
2006-08-26 02:45:52 · answer #6 · answered by Maria N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to do something!!! Find out if he still has feeling for her, if he doesn't .....tell him to handle it. The last thing you need is a bad name. But in the mean time you may want to warn her , what could happen if this carrys on.
2006-08-26 02:49:26 · answer #7 · answered by baby_star78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol, tell her to get it in her head that it's over and to leave you two alone otherwise you gonna smoke her ***!
2006-08-26 02:39:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick her butt then end all drama one way or the other!
2006-08-26 02:38:03 · answer #9 · answered by hello2tlf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick her butt
2006-08-26 02:51:19 · answer #10 · answered by samy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋