Tips on how to get over feelings for someone you have to see all the time?

Question

Anyone have any tips on how to get rid of feelings for someone you cant have, but have to see and be with all the time?

k, theres no way to avoid seeing him. So thats not an option. Besides trying to see him LESS...what else you got??

Answer 1

Make it so you don't have to see them all the time?! If it is a school/work issue...you can NOT interact with them...but be considerate and cordial if it is a must.

The only way you can "get over" someone is by either not allowing yourself to go down that scary road of thinking about them and hoping "one day" it will happen which is terribly hard to do if you HAVE to see them. The ideal situation...get them out of your life by any means necessary and constantly tell yourself they are evil, hurtful and never really cared about you in any way, shape or form and it becomes very, very simple! (Even more simple if it's the truth).

Good luck! : )

Answer 2

Are you having to get rid of feelings because of marriage issues on either side? Sounds like may be you guys work together? Whats the reason why you want to get rid of feelings? Hey somebody might feel the same way but just not be aggresive about showing it.

Answer 3

This is going to be very hard, and a true test of your character. Above all, be gracious, have class, and always have manners. Show that you can be a mature adult, and not dwell on "what might have been", even if you feel otherwise. I know this may be very hard to do, and I'm sorry you have to be in that situation. Been there, done that. It's not easy, but be the bigger person, and try to move on from it.

Answer 4

You just try your best not to think about them and not show emotions in your face. And with time, and I mean a lot of time hopefully those feelings will fade.

Answer 5

time will past just look around you and you will find something that will get your eye