2006-08-25 19:16:54 · 39 answers · asked by rajib bhai 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Communication!
2006-08-25 19:18:38 · answer #1 · answered by X's Mommy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
knowing when to back off during an argument, being gracious enough to apologize, repecting each others opinions, and agreeing to be able to disagree on certain things, are the things I feel are MOST important in a good marriage. All the love and honor should be there already be there, its when things get a little intense that marriages can turn ugly. A couple should always treat each other the way they themselves would want to be treated. I've been married for 25 years, and though we aren't perfect, we are still very much in love. There is nothing better than knowing you have that soft place to land in this sometimes harsh world.
2006-08-27 08:43:31 · answer #2 · answered by hoaloha43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication, honesty, love and friendship. You might have a few arguments over time but talk to each other and listen to each other. If you don't say anything it will fester and turn the relationship sour. Most marriage breakups are caused by finacial matters. Mainly, because someone tries to hide spending habits or both hide spending habits. Talk about the finances. If you keep the checkbook and pay the bills allow the spouse to be there when you do this. That way they can see what is coming and what is going out. If you can't talk about things find a way to communicate with each by seeing a counselor to help you talk through your frustrations. Eventually, you will learn the tools to communicate with your spouse.
But remember to always be honest, communicate and be a friend. You are together through the good and the bad. Till death do you part.
People today seem to take these sacred vows as words you just say with no meaning. At one time they did mean something to many. And people throw away something old as soon as they see something "new". Just keep in mind with this phase "things get better with age".
2006-08-25 21:40:32 · answer #3 · answered by deltazeta_mary 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing of a happy married life is don't love with her wife.
2006-08-26 07:39:18 · answer #4 · answered by kuldeepbhrgv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not easy to summarize the answer in one most important thing.
You can say (Trust, Faith, Love and/or feeling of secure)
Many physicians says that the normal thing for a body organ that you don't feel it is not exist and you you feel your stomach for example this means you have a problem with your stomach if you feel your aye, this means you have a problem with your aye.
your wife is a part of you, a part of your life.
it is like an organ of your body.
The harmony of happy married life like this is to feel that your wife is a part of you.
Sorry for my poor English.
I'm not sure if I can explained it or not.
Regards
Ahmed
2006-08-25 19:35:55 · answer #5 · answered by Ahmed A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Wife & I Have been married for 32 years. Have they all been fantastic?? No not always. But....in a happy marriage where Love exists, you & your Wife must learn to talk together...about everything. Learn to shoulder the weight....together.
"True Love" didn't happen at first. It took about 10-12 years. One day I was alone and thinking about things and I suddenly had this picture in my mind, of a huge tapestry, of everything we had done, places we had been, people we knew, things that we like. I was amazed to see that she & I had woven this thing, one strand at a time. It was fantasticly beautiful......!! I realized we had done this together!! Not just her or not just me...together!! Today?? I can be alone and still smell her hair, feel her touch, see her smile and it makes me want to see her even more!!
I Love to hold her as long as I can, feel her heart beating next to mine, see her eyes twinkle. Most of all....I love to hear her laugh!! For that...I'll be her clown anytime!!
Do we have problems?? Sure we do.....But not with each other!!
She loves Roses....she loves a hot shower...she loves sleeping till she wakes up on her own...she loves to have her feet massaged...to have her hair brushed for her. She gets tickled when I clean the house...wash the dishes...wash the clothes...swim in the pool with her and NOT splash her...most of all...she loves it when I tell her I can't live without her!!
I can't think of anything else when I'm with her, but her!! She's beautiful, smart, intelligent, kind, loving, gracious, a Lady. It is MY pleasure to Love her with all my heart and for all my days!!
2006-08-25 20:26:36 · answer #6 · answered by dontwobears@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want a to have a happy married life, put God first in your relationship. Make HIM the center of your family and establish a good relationship with God. I tell you everything will be smooth in the long run. Good Luck
2006-08-25 21:28:04 · answer #7 · answered by lynn 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think being able to laugh stuff off.Laughing together relieves tension and makes you feel warm inside which is a great thing for married couples.
2006-08-25 19:19:58 · answer #8 · answered by hippiegirl672003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear,
everybody is lying.
sex is occupying 10% of the life. But with out sex a life should not be completed. Every problem starts with sex and money in married life.
With regards,
sunlights11@gmail.com
2006-08-25 23:22:47 · answer #9 · answered by sun P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communication I think is the most important. You have to be able to talk to each other about anything.
2006-08-25 22:44:20 · answer #10 · answered by JAYNE C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋