ok so im goin out w/this one guy but the problem is i still think about my ex...and my ex lives in mexico and im goin 2 go 2 mexico in a few months...and i dont know if somethin might happen w/my ex when i go over there....is that bad??
2006-08-25 19:06:21 · 14 answers · asked by curimeo_michoacan_gurl_818 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
o.k...go to mexico but don't go out sneaking around w/ex...it's not right...seems like ur ex was like your first love and you can't forget about him...chick just don't hurt your current bf...
2006-08-25 19:17:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you haven't yet resolved the break up with the ex. Before you hurt your current one, you need to totally free yourself of the first one. It wouldn't be fair, would it? To string him along, if you truly have feelings for the ex. Be honest, and up front. Next, try to come to terms with things, and ask yourself again the reasons for the breakup, and if there are good/bad reasons for being in touch with the ex again. If there are more bad than good, well, then you have your answer, and I wouldn't even go there. Respect yourself, and your new interest.
2006-08-26 02:14:24 · answer #2 · answered by Michael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm kind of in the same boat you are - i've been away from my ex for well over a year, have a little boy with my fionce and yet my ex comes into my mind a lot. he asked me to go visit him in Concord, but to make sure i don't make any mistakes i'm not going. if you do make sure someone is with you guys so you dont get caught in the moment. that way you will not regret hurting the person you have with you now. ;D
good luck
2006-08-26 02:11:09 · answer #3 · answered by Kai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope. it's human. hell, u aren't married! just makes wise decisions in everything you do (that's what my mother always says :) nothing is ever wrong with following your heart. the problem is when you start following some other "things" too! if you care for you new boyfriend, then make good decisions to be faithful. if you still want your ex, and think something special needs to be reunited...then make good decisions to reunite with him. but don't be greedy. don't be heartless. and don't treat either man in a manner that you would not want to be treated yourself.
(and yes, i am considering the fact that most men are JERKS, and never put the thought into relationships that we do. but the fact remains...you can't be worried about their actions. only yours. karma is a b___!)
good luck!
2006-08-26 02:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by sexy law chick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think its normal..everyone has an ex they miss i do too. but its important you move on and if you really cant resist your ex and you know you miss him it may be smart to not go see him at all even if you want to especially if your current bf really likes you alot..stick with him then..but if you miss your ex so much that you dont have any feelings for your bf break up with him..its not fair to him.
2006-08-26 02:17:05 · answer #5 · answered by umm hi<333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will come to know how you still feel about yr ex once yr there. its hard to drop feeling for someone at times. work it out when you go there. read more on dating and relationships that might help you on this site
2006-08-26 02:17:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To sleep with old boyfriend or not? Try to imagine how you will feel about each decision 5 years from now. Which would you regret more: doing it or not doing it?
2006-08-26 02:12:26 · answer #7 · answered by AZNYC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are ignorant. What might happen? He might rape you, or you might sleep with him? Is it bad to sleep with your "ex" when you are dating someone else? Oh please! Is it bad to sleep with your dad? Is it bad to sleep with husband's brother? No, it's not bad. Perfectly normal, perfectly healthy. Stay in Mexico with your seven illigetimate offspring.
2006-08-28 21:55:20 · answer #8 · answered by jc20155 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun you do what you want to do Cu's if dude cant keep your mind off the x thin hes not doing his job
2006-08-26 02:18:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
and your ex things about your boy friend maybe you should all get together for some fun
2006-08-26 02:10:26 · answer #10 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋