Perhaps the reason to live is not to help yourself, but rather to help someone else, even if they don't know enough to care. You can be the one who cares first.
2006-08-25 18:50:09
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answered by J 3
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I'll bet there really are a lot of people who care very much about you, but you may not be able to recognize that if you're depressed. I've been where you are and also thought no one cared. But I held off doing anything stupid and as a Little time passed, I learned that people did care about me.
There's a reason you were put on this earth so do whatever it takes to get over these feelings. Who knows what valuable contribution you'll make in your lifetime and how many people you will bring happiness to. Those of us answering are showing we care about you , otherwise we wouldn't bother,
At the end of each day try to think of at least one good thing that happened and write it down, Even if it was the warmth of the sun on your face or a cool breeze or your ice cream tasted especially good. Maybe you smiled at someone and made them happy. Do you have a good friend you can talk to when you're feeling down? Let us know how you do, promise??? Are you old enough to volunteer at a hospital or a school to help children learn to read better? If you help others, you will be much rewarded with good feelings about yourself. WE REALLY DO CARE ABOUT YOU!!!!
2006-08-30 18:47:20
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answered by conetoe 3
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You should live, because God put you on this earth for a purpose and reason, find the real meaning of your life, you can do a lot, why are you so depressed, there are many sources to help you, do you have friends? Family? church? Don't be so discouraged, we must take action to make our lives better, not everything is lost, all things have a solution, believe me, and you are going through a tough time right now, things are repairable always. What do you like doing and what makes you say this? Change your life, work out a plan and plan the work, everything requires some effort always, just don't be alone any more and get close to God, he is your creator, go to church, it helps a lot. God bless and good luck, people do care!!
2006-09-02 13:02:27
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answered by You are loved 5
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Look. I have been where you are with your thoughts. When I attempted suicide I thought the same things. But, I soon realized I was very mistaken. It isn't all for nothing. You do matter. You only feel this way right now because you seem to be attracted to bad luck. The people immediately around you who seem like they don't care are just maybe tired of the drama you create for yourself. Just like I did. When I survived from my attempt, I realized that I wasn't going to let anyone influence how I felt. It was my time, to stand up and be what I had to be.What that was, I didn't know at the time, but I knew it had to be better than what it presently was. But, as time passed I realized all the lives I had touched. It meant a great deal to me. I mean, what if I hadn't been there at the exact moment when someone else needed me, me! No one else at that time. The words I said, the hug I gave them. ME. And you know what? YOU, can make a difference too, in someone else's life. Don't throw that opportunity away. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off and try again. As they say: If at first you don't succeed, try and try again. You have so much to offer to someone in your life. You just don't know it yet. I now have a husband that I have been married to for the last 10 years and a beautiful 9 year old daughter who rely on me everyday to be there for them. I feel more blessed today than I ever have. And, you will feel that too one day. Give yourself some credit. You deserve more out of life than ending it. Good luck. I believe in you.
2006-08-25 19:00:46
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answered by teashy 6
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Because there is a reason for everything, even when you don't understand why you are here. I went through the same thing and you need to deal with what's making you feel this way. Closure or confronting it. Whatever it is, you may need to deal with it because it will resurface and you will have to go through it again. Someone does care. Examine yourself.
Check out a book called Purpose Driven Life by Rick Warren. You have to be ready to read this book so if you are not, don't pick it up. But you will find the answer to your question--promise that's if you start soul searching.
2006-08-31 07:32:26
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answered by Doll eyez 2
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You should live because you do not know for sure that no one cares and you may be able to help someone that wants to live a better life by doing something now or in the future.
2006-08-31 18:16:32
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answered by sweet pea 3
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Find a reason to live, Change something that is wrong, and replace it with something right, a new hobby, a new friend, a new job. You need to find and make that difference, because no one can do that for you, but you and you alone.
Hope this helps take care and good luck
2006-08-25 18:50:08
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answered by Anonymous
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Because life changes and there will be a reason someday!! Besides life is worth living at least get a kick out of it... Get a tattoo or maybe break the law. Even Peirce everything! Blow off some money.. Do something fun! :)
2006-09-02 18:33:44
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answered by flamingfreak10 1
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Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. There are several agencies you can get hooked up with that can teach you coping skills to get you through your daily struggles. People DO care, and would probably be devastated if something was to happen to you. There must be something you can draw strength from...whether it be God, a friend, a family member. Don't try to tackle this alone. Seek help from whatever source you can, and surrender to the process of getting better. Good luck to you.
2006-08-31 15:41:22
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answered by Anonymous
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There is always a reason for your life. You are an example to someone. Maybe you don't even know who. Put honey your present has a purpose, It may be for you to care for someone are for someone to take care of you . Some time it's hard for us to let someone care for us, but God works both ways. Give and take.
2006-09-02 17:15:26
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answered by Pauline M 1
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