do u think cheaters should get a second chance?? cuz a guy cheated on me...but i still love him...and i know he does 2...should i give him another chance??
2006-08-25 18:41:55 · 64 answers · asked by curimeo_michoacan_gurl_818 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Once a cheater, always a cheater!
2006-08-25 18:43:40 · answer #1 · answered by islandgirl92075 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I belive you should learn to speak English. Is the question "Do you believe in giving someone WHO cheated on you a second Chance? Do you think THAT cheaters shoud get a second chance? A guy cheated on me, but I still love him and I know he does too. Should I give him another chance?
NO. Dump him and go to community college where you can take a remedial English class.
2006-08-25 18:46:13 · answer #2 · answered by jc20155 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The snap answer is usually no but really it depends on the circumstances. If it's a newer relationship, perhaps this is his last time that he considers to be just dating instead of something more serious, or not. Sometimes men cheat because they get cold feet and then once they do they realize that it's you they want to be with. Some couples don't take fidelity seriously at all, and others would never go back if there was cheating. Right now the ball seems to be in your court so do what feels right and what makes you happy.
2006-08-25 19:14:48 · answer #3 · answered by Hippie Bill Clinton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Cheating does not have just a yes or no answer. The motives behind the cheating need to be addressed. A complete and honest discussion is needed. Something is lacking. If the relationship continues to deteriorate after such a heartfelt discussion then action should be taken. There are 2 people involved (not counting third party) that need to communicate. Circumstances change. Don't just cut a person that you love out of your life. Don't become a doormat, but a second chance is warranted as no one is perfect and maybe he didn't realize what he would be losing. Don't ruin your and his life lightly. COMMUNICATE
2006-08-25 18:48:51 · answer #4 · answered by Glenn M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheaters cheat because they love to cheat! Cheaters NEVER stop cheating. If he cheated on you once, he will do it again and again! Just be glad you found out what he is all about now...before you married him. Kick him to the curve and find a real man who does not have to act like a dog! If you are smart you will get rid of him NOW! If not, prepare for a life of pain and mistrust!
2006-08-25 18:53:58 · answer #5 · answered by Marie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he willing to be with you no matter what too?.. then i think maybe yea you should give hm a second chance, you say you still love him so why not, also depends on if he cheated siverly on you.. if you ever suspect anything let him know and if you feel he's willing to chance and out the past behind him then do so, if things dont work out, dont over do it and try to get over him honey!
well good luck with the choices you make <3
2006-08-25 18:48:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has cheated on you, whats to say he isn't going to do it again?! AND if you take him back, as sorry as he is now...in the future he will know that he can cheat and cheat and cheat, and you will always be there to "forgive" him! Second of all, if he cheated on you, isn't that kind of like saying you weren't good enough so he had to find someone else?! not to metion did he pick up any STI's from this other person?! I wouldn't do it, think about what your parents would say if they knew, or your friends!!There is always a reason someone cheats and if you take them back you are only lowering your slef to second best!
2006-08-25 18:49:29 · answer #7 · answered by Babygirl1726 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't decide for you but i would advise you to be careful in what you choose ,it is important to know the reason or reasons why he did this ,if it was that you found this out and he didn't confronted you ,then maybe you should consider that he probably would have continue with it but if he came straight and told you ,then there is two things he is honest and he wants to change ,i know how you feel about loving him ,you own him nothing and it is OK to love him and be in love with him and to continue tis but be more concern for yourself ,for it is clear that he hasn't been ,cause if he did he wouldn't have cheated on you in the beginning ,don't allow yourself to hurt twice,he cheated on you and now he might be planning to do things different in the future or he might just remain a cheater and a liar .
2006-08-25 19:07:35 · answer #8 · answered by terece 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think that you should give him a second chance because hes probably gonna cheat on you again and if he really loves you than why did he cheat on you? he wouldn't of cheated on you if he really loved you. remember once your a cheater your always a cheater.
2006-08-25 18:56:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's completely up to you if you feel if you can forgive and get over it...but ask yourself , what is the worst thing your Boyfriend could do to you? Most people would say cheat on me! So think about it if he has done the worst what else can he do, but do it again, because you'll show him it's okay and forgivable. Best of luck, sorry it happened in the first place, take care.
2006-08-25 18:47:05 · answer #10 · answered by Wood77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO I JUST got cheated on last week and he came back beggin me to take him back because he cant get me out of his head. I told him id take him back as soon as i stop breathing,lol. I no longer trust him anymore and without trust there is nothing. You know that you will always be wondering whether he is cheatin on u or not. Save urself the heartache hunny, and let him go, u can do better than that! It hurts so bad I know, but you'll get through it, leave his sorry *** and be the bigger person!!!! Good luck.
2006-08-29 10:30:56 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋