who is more to blame... the married man, or the ''other woman" who he likes?

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honest replies only :)

Answer 1

the married man made the commitment

Answer 2

The married party is always the one that should be blamed.
Finish your business with the wife first, before hooking up with someone else.
I understand how cheating can happen, but we really need to stop blaming the "other woman"
She is not the one cheating and being deceitful, she is probably single and just wanting some love.
-However if she knows that he has children etc.... she needs to back the **** off, dont mess with a "family man"

Answer 3

Like the old saying goes, "it takes two to tango". No married man should cheat on his wife. If he wants another woman, have the guts to look the wife in the eye and tell her he wants out. The same goes for the "other woman". She has no right to be playing with another woman's man.

Answer 4

There is an old saying, no one takes advantage of you without you're own permission. Unless the woman was deceived, its both there faults. She should know better than to get involved with a married man who just wants to screw.

Answer 5

Well, let me tell you a story...it just really depends on the situation. There was a woman who KNEW my husband was married and she pursued him anyway. He also made the decision to go there...so in the end he lost everything...and I have moved on. A ring on a finger doesn't mean they will stay away...especially if they are trying to get whatever it is that they want out of them. She used him like a tampon, and he lost his family, and that isn't the worst part.

Answer 6

What is the point of knowing who to blame?
What is more important here is for the party who is in the dilemma to know what is the best action to take and where to move on from there, isn't it?

Answer 7

the married man, he knows he is in a marriage and he's got eyes on someone else. he's a dog and he'll do it again!