Ok,look i'm going to have my first time sometime soon with my longtime girlfriend who's also a virgin. But,i'm worried about one thing,me cumming.What happens when i cu m,will i holler,will it hurt? Please tell me,i know everything else about you know what,i just need to know about cumming.
2006-08-25 18:27:56 · 15 answers · asked by Ramon O 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No,dont get me wrong,i'm not a lame nor a freak.I'm just worried about my first time.Its for educational purpose,not to be a freak or a ignorant pervert.Not my cause,i just don't know.
2006-08-25 18:31:04 · update #1
To the person who thought all guys masturabate,they don't.I don't and never will.And to the person who said maybe i'm not ready,I am ready,just concerned about what happens.
2006-08-25 18:32:35 · update #2
and yes,we are prepared,I will be using a condom,and making her take birth control
2006-08-25 18:33:47 · update #3
No one knows the answer to that. You will have that special moment all to yourself. Think about how you want to express you emotions, I doubt if it will hurt unless the young lady to a "tight fit". If this is the first time for both of you please use a condom. Rap It UP
2006-08-25 18:32:37 · answer #1 · answered by BmoreBabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're worried about having an orgasm, then maybe you should start off small first. Hand jobs, bj's, etc. The last thing you need is to be worrying about what it's going to be like AND the possibility of her getting pregnant. One worry is bad enough! :-)
If you're not really into that other stuff, then don't worry. As long as everything is working down there, you shouldn't feel any pain, and neither should she (orgasm wise, anyway). Just remember to take it slow, because the first time can be slightly painful for a girl, especially if her hymen (the skin around the vagina/uterus) is sill completely intact. Go in a little bit, take a break, pull out, then go in a little bit more. That will also keep you from cumming too quickly. Take the time to enjoy it!
As far as sounds go, that varies by person, but my bf's been known to let out a few moans, haha. If you're worried, make sure you're somewhere where no one will hear your noises.
Good luck, and be responsible!
2006-08-26 01:34:53 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it won't hurt, it happens when you orgasm, if you feel the need to be verbal, go for it, if her parents are in the next room control yourself and don't make too much noise. remember to wear a condom by the way, b/c cumming can lead to pregnancy.
2006-08-26 01:31:26 · answer #3 · answered by marisha z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, It sounds like you are not ready to do this but who is?!. I say have fun. No reason to be scared so have fun.
2006-08-26 01:47:19 · answer #4 · answered by Chickie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesn't hurt!!!! It actually feels really good. According to my husband!! Be safe and have fun!!!!
2006-08-26 01:31:48 · answer #5 · answered by Mary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wont holler unless she has some bondage tools
2006-08-26 01:30:18 · answer #6 · answered by ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chinese Proverb: "To know the road ahead, ask those coming back." Talk to your parents.
2006-08-26 01:45:26 · answer #7 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just go with it, your girl don't know what to expect so don't worry about it.
2006-08-26 01:31:42 · answer #8 · answered by top momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like you're ready for this. You should wait.
2006-08-26 01:30:05 · answer #9 · answered by John F 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
one you will sin 2, you my have a baby
2006-08-26 01:42:28 · answer #10 · answered by Heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋