why would somebody run out of the room to talk to there ex lover while her boyfriend is right there?

Question

she says that she was letting their son talk to him.. she did go into the child room..
She doesn't think that I need to be part of their conversations about their child. and I did hear them talking about him taking the child for next weekend

we've been together for a yeaqr now, so yes she is my gf, yes

if you asked your so called lover for a hug and get ofgf the damn computer 5 sec to do it would you

Answer 1

Because there are unresolved issues. Otherwise, it wouldn't matter. This person may not be in to the new one, and still have feelings for the old. Why else would they run after someone who is no longer part of their life? It's very hard to have a break up, and sometimes, people begin dating way too soon. They haven't given themselves the necessary time to grieve, forgive, and move on, before involving someone else in their lives. I'm sorry this happened to you, and I hope you will try to understand that there must have been a lot of feelings left, and maybe this other person hasn't yet come to terms with things. Best wishes.

Answer 2

Sheesh... Some advices you get... You're getting too worried over nothing... Don't jump into conclusion that she is still intersted in her ex... They have a child, so they should share the responsibility of taking care of him...

You could say that you are her BF but then, the child may feel more secured and comfortable with his real dad. Nothing more... You should learn to trust your partner... Even if you are her BF, it doesn't mean that you have the right to put your nose into everything that they are doing or talking... Give her space... If she really trust you, she would personally open up things for you... Be patient and trust her... She may feel that you, her ex, and most importantly, her child, would feel uncomfortable talking about their responsibility in front of someone else... People get completely uncomfortable when talking about personal unresolved issues in front of anybody other than those who are nicluded in the said issues... Deal with it... Accept it...

Face it... It's reality... When talking about children and unresolved issues, you are still "someone else"

Answer 3

Two reasons 1 still likes them or 2 wants to make the boyfriend jealous

Answer 4

1 Corinthians 13
1If I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am become sounding brass or a clanging cymbal. 2And if I have prophecy, and know ◙all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. 3And if I shall dole out all my goods in food, and if I deliver up my body that I may be burned, but have not love, I profit nothing. 4Love has long patience, is kind; love is not emulous [of others]; love is not insolent and rash, ◙is not puffed up, 5does not behave in an unseemly manner, does not seek what is its own, is not quickly provoked, does not impute evil, 6does not rejoice at iniquity but rejoices with the truth, 7bears ◙all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. 8Love never fails; but whether prophecies, they shall be done away; or tongues, they shall cease; or knowledge, it shall be done away. 9For we know ◙in part, and we prophesy in part: 10but when that which is perfect has come, that which is in part shall be done away. 11When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I felt ◙as a child, I reasoned as a child; when I became a man, I had done with what belonged to the child. 12For we see now through a dim window ◙obscurely, but then face to face; now I know partially, but then I shall know according as I also have been known. 13And now abide faith, hope, love; these three things; and the greater of these [is] love.

Answer 5

That was the Q for the botfriend to hit the road. She is going to tell him how it is stupid to be jelous,that nothing is going on,that they are just friends.This is all a load of horse sh!t. The boyfriend is just temporary side meat at this point, and she is a lying little whore.

Answer 6

#1They are rude and have no respect for you..Ex-lovers are what they are...Ex's...
#2They harbor some feelings for the person still..They have something to hide unless they have kids or something that ties them together...If not,look out..
#3As long as I'm with my man,I would give him some honest respect..I'm with you..Phone calls can be returned..Or a simple,I have company or I;m spending quality time with my man is good..Be careful baby..Take care of YOU...Them chicks will follow..

Answer 7

i think it's all about the level of the relationship they had for each other.. and who knows they've been friends even before they decided to be a couple?-(girl & her ex) that's why she ran to him when she had issues or problems.. or it may be, she haven't establish yet a good communication style to his current bf.. or it could be a way to make her bf jealous which is not a good thing to do.. it always bring disaster to relationships..

Answer 8

To express the new experience.

Answer 9

2 words...dump her, find a new gf.....dude!!?? 3 not even 1?? r u sure shes ur gf??....o just usin u to mke them jealous??

Answer 10

Because he/she didn't want new boyfriend to hear what he/she was saying.