Why do i find it hard to believe on my boyfriend?

Question

I have the most UNBELEIVEABLE guy in the world!
He is my friend in college and also a colleague in our student council, cumlaude, goodlooking, religious, family oriented, employed, was and still in love with me for about 4 yrs now (which i have no idea b4) and who asked me to be his gf after college (which i said yes).
He had done a lot of good deeds for me before we had this relationship and up to know but I haven't for him as far as I can remember I only brought him tears and disappointment and sitll he loves me.
Believe me, i also love him but why do i find it hard to believe in him? Supposedly he shoud hate mate but he don't. Is there really such guys like him, why?

Answer 1

If you feel you have done so much to your boyfriend that he should hate you I suggest you clean up your act. If you have a good man treat him right let him love you and enjoy what he has to offer but make sure you treat him the same. You could be the first girl he has ever loved to this extent dont make him regret it. Some men get so abused and hurt that when the relationship is over they bring their baggage and mistreat the next girl so they wont suffer like they did before.

If he is good to you show him in whatever form possible how much you appreciate him. the world is full of jack.as.ses Ive had my share until I was blessed with my husband who can be a jerk but not as bad as most men. Remember you dont want to do anything that will make your man come out his character....thats how people end up on the news dead. either love him right or left someone else do it....appreciate him, hes real and hes worth it

Answer 2

There really are guys like him...They are few and far between so if you really love him hold onto him, he is a rare breed. I ask my husband every day why he loves me even though I'm usually stressed out and mean to him, the only answer he will ever give me is "Because I do", and that is the best feeling in the world. Someone loves you for you despite your flaws, consider yourself lucky.

Answer 3

Yah...such guys really DO exist! The problem now is, you have underestimated your own self worth. If you wish to sustain this relationship, you need to learn to love yourself before you can learn to reciprocate his love. Once you see your own self worth, you'd have more confidence in yourself and you won't end up entertaining negative thoughts about distrusting your boyfriend.

Answer 4

You are feeling guilt. Because you can not figure out why this man has done so much for you and still loves you. And why you have done so little for him and he still loves you.. You probably feel that if he do 1 thing to you bad then you won't feel guilty. But leave things alone if they are not broken. He sees you ask perfect. He likes doing things for you and like you accepting them.

Answer 5

He's an idiot to put up with you, he has low repect for himself to keep hanging around you. You probably recognize this deep down inside and you dont like his lack of back bone. If you dont believe hin him, let him know and split, so you dont have to break his heart later after the relationship has lasted longer.

Answer 6

This is why nice guys don't exist. Because nobody believes them. Instead of spending every single second of your day over analyzing everything just shut up and enjoy yourself. My motto in life is "Never question a miracle". You got one in your favor, shut up or the next 2 are comin' straight up your ***.

Answer 7

WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU? YOU KNOW WHAT...YOU'RE GOING TO KEEP TAKING HIM FOR GRANTED AND THEN WHEN HE LEAVES YOU, YOU'LL BE ABSOLUTELY DISTRAUT WRITING TO US "HE LEFT ME...WHAT SHOULD I DO?" I REALLY DON'T WANT TO ANSWER A QUESTION LIKE THAT WHEN YOU CAN PREVENT IT FROM GETTING TO THAT POINT.

I THINK THAT WOMEN LIKE YOU DON'T APPRECIATE GOOD MEN WHEN YOU HAVE THEM BECAUSE MAYBE YOU'VE NEVER BEEN WITH ONE THAT TREATED YOU LIKE CRAP BEFORE. ONCE YOU'VE EXPERIENCED BEING PISSED IN YOUR FACE AND TOLD THAT IT'S RAINING, YOU'LL LEARN TO APPRECIATE AND VALUE THE FACT THAT THIS MAN REALLY DOES CARE ABOUT YOU. IT'S VERY OBVIOUS THAT HE VALUES THE RELATIONSHIP A GREAT DEAL MORE THEN YOU, AND I'M GETTING THE FEELING THAT YOU'RE ENJOYING HAVING HIM LIKE A PUPPET ON A STRING. HE'S PINOCCHIO AND YOU'RE GEPATO ( I GUESS THAT'S HOW YOU SPELL IT)...THAT'S NOT CUTE! TREAT PEOPLE LIKE YOU WANT TO BE TREATED AND STOP GIVING GOOD WOMEN BAD NAMES...

Answer 8

yes, consider yourself lucky, he seemes like the type thats past the stage where hes only looking for *** candy so yes, enjoy the relationship, dont worry about the past, live for the future : )

Answer 9

WHAT YOU NEED TO DO, IS STOPING PUTING YOUR SELF
DOWN, HE LOVE YOU AND BEEN THERE FOR YOU SO STOP COMPLAINING ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE DOING TO
HIM HE STILL THERE SO BE HAPPY THAT YOU HAVE FOUND
A GOOD GUY. AND BE THANKFUL FOR WHAT YOU GOT.
SOME TIME IT TAKE A LIFETIME TO FIND THAT SPECIAL
SOMEONE, YOU GOT A GOOD ONE. SO BE HAPPY .
GOOD LUCK.

Answer 10

thier aren't many people like that. you should bask in his sunshine of love for you because if you keep acting like this, it won't be around for long.