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i am deeply in love with my best friend whom i have know for 2 years. we have mentioned marriage once or twice she brought it up. but everytime i want to take things another step she says we are just friends, alright i will put all of my feelings to aside no problem but here is where the problem comes in....she tells me everything about her and i listen and give her advise, i feel that sometimes i may not be intellegent enough to help her out with some of the stuff she needs help with! im not stupid or anything i just dont know how to be there for her and give her the advise she really needs. i prefer the ladies to help me with this one please.

2006-08-25 18:15:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

6 answers

I'm not a lady but i'll tell you this anyway -You are being used. She does not fell the same way about you that you fell about her. I know that it's got to hurt but move on. Also if being a freind to her keeps bringing up old fellings thens it's best to separate yourself from her for awile. I know you want to help her but, you need to work on yourself first.

2006-08-25 18:32:15 · answer #1 · answered by Butz 3 · 0 0

Sir, your issues is not a male or a female situation, it has to do with NATURE. Whether people like it or not, believe it or not, the truth is no one can MAKE some one love them!

You do not get to chose, Nature puts it on the both of you and that is the end of that!

Dyed hair, make-up, ribbon size skirts, big muscles, crap around the eyes, what ever - non of it will grow true love!

^The girl in your question IS NOT INTERESTED! And you are playing Sour grapes, the more you realize you can not have it, the more you say you must have it!

Plant your body in the Upsala University, in Sweden, and we will hear a different song in less that 30 seconds.

Wanna bet?

2006-08-26 01:38:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Ladies only? Dude I was going to give you the best advise. Oh well...

2006-08-26 01:19:30 · answer #3 · answered by subjex@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0 0

Obviously she doesn't feel the same way for you that you feel for her. You can't make someone love you. Your best bet is to accept it and move on.

2006-08-26 01:19:03 · answer #4 · answered by Crossroads Keeper 5 · 0 0

girls loves to have a guy friend to talk to about stuff with. you might want to really express how you feel to her cause it just sounds like she think of you nothin but a friend. good luck

2006-08-26 01:20:35 · answer #5 · answered by amber 2 · 0 0

OMG!! that's kinda weird!!!!! but dunno keep trying diff things

2006-08-26 01:24:30 · answer #6 · answered by Shell Bell 1 · 0 0

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