MY BF LIVES VERY FAR FROM ME BUT WE REALLY DO LOVE EACH OTHER. DO U THINK IT'S A SILLY THING HAVING A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP?
2006-08-25 18:10:49 · 27 answers · asked by HAITIAN HOTTIE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WELL WE'VE BEEN LIVING IN THE SAME COUNTRY, BUT I MOVED. HE CAME THIS SUMMER TO CANADA. AND HE PLAN TO COME TO SEE ME IN DECEMBER FOR MY BIRTHDAY OR DURING THE SUMMER.
WE ACTUALLY ARGUE A LOT, BUT AT THE END WE GET ALONE.
2006-08-25 18:33:33 · update #1
why shouldn't it be okay?long distance relationships are slightly more challenging then normal relationships,but that doesnt make them any better or worse.The maturity of the inviduals involved,communication and commitment all are keys to any healthy relationship long distance or not.
2006-08-25 18:14:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not silly... I have this friend who is having a long distance relationship for more than 5 years... Of course, you need a long amount of patience and trust to go through all that. That's the biggest problem with long distance relationship... It's not communication since we have phones and e-mails nowadays... It's the physical presence which troubles most couples...
Long distance relationship would work if the couples are real serious with each other and trusts each other...
2006-08-26 01:18:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very silly...especially if you guys were involved in a sexual relationship because the 'sex withdraw' for a man is far greater than it is for the woman. Your long distance man will tell you eveything you want to hear but at night...I gurantee you...he's out on the prowl! In his head and heart he know's he loves you but his body is yearning for the physical relationship... with men the head of their ding dong speaks louder than their actual head that has the brain in it!!!! I know from experience...I'm divorced after only being on a summer internship for 6 weeks he went and poked and prodded where he shouldn't have!
2006-08-26 01:17:44 · answer #3 · answered by Terry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it is okay to have a long distance relationship.
Trust is a major factor
And it is much harder than having a relationship when you are together so you have to keep that in mind
In one now and it is killin me to be apart
But love does strange and wonderful things to people
be cool...
2006-08-26 01:18:08 · answer #4 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have said no, but something happened to me in last week and I say yes.
It entirely depends on how positive you two are despite the long distance!!
2006-08-26 01:19:43 · answer #5 · answered by ~Raju~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY! IF THE TWO OF YOU LOVE EACH OTHER, WHY DOES DISTANCE MATTER?. IF HE'S THE TYPE OF MAN THAT CHEATS, THEN HIM LIVING NEXT DOOR TO YOU IS NOT GOING TO STOP HIM...BELIEVE ME I KNOW FROM EXPERIENCE! ACTUALLY, IT WASN'T NEXT DOOR, IT WAS A STREET OVER IN THE NEXT NEIGHBORHOOD. WE HAD BEEN SEEING EACH OTHER FOR ABOUT 8 MONTHS, WE SAW EACH OTHER EVERYDAY AND HE WAS STILL WITH ANOTHER WOMAN ( HIS SO-CALLED FRIEND) THE ENTIRE TIME. SO, AS LONG AS YOU'VE GOT TWO MATURE PEOPLE THAT LOVE EACH OTHER AND REALLY WANT TO MAKE THINGS WORK...GO FOR IT!!! GOOD LUCK!
2006-08-26 01:16:49 · answer #6 · answered by CHASE_ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all! you're not the only one in a long distance relationship, i am too! and we're doin just fine.. as long as you both know that you love each other! and of course you should have a lot of trust then i guess, you'll do just fine!!
2006-08-26 01:16:00 · answer #7 · answered by keiCh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I did it myself(I was in Orlando fl, she was in houston, tx.). Me and my wife had a long distance relationship for 5 years before we got married almost 3 years ago. But damn, its hard not seeing the one you love.
2006-08-26 01:15:09 · answer #8 · answered by subjex@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not silly. i have been in a relationship for the past 3 years he lives around 45 minutes from me. we fell inlove and made it work. we are now getting married! Good luck!
2006-08-26 01:13:41 · answer #9 · answered by shauna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No- it is not silly at all. I was in the similar situation. Now I am married to that girl with one kid here in USA ( the girl was in China ) :). I am enjoying and feeling happy about what I believed in.
2006-08-26 01:18:03 · answer #10 · answered by JASPAL S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋