There is this guy i really like. He knows i like him but i don't how he feels about me. I am going to get someone to ask him how he feels about me and wether or not i have a chance with him. The only reason i'm getting someone else to do it is because he won't open up to me. Should i get one of his mates who goes on his bus to talk to him(this fella knows the whole situation cos he seems to keep reminding him that i like him, i don't really get a long with him though). Or should i get his most closest mate to ask him. He doesn't know that i like this guy though, but he has quite a good chance of getting him to open up as well as the other fella. Who should i choose? his closest mate or another mate who actually know the situation. Please help me decide?
The reason why i wanna know if he likes me and if i have a chance is cos he sorta sends me hints, but i have no experince with this stuff and so i need to know for sure. I am really in love with this guy.
2006-08-25 17:57:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know him extremely well, so don't tell me i don't know him. if i personally ask him if he like me he'll get all shy on me and tell me f**k off. Do ya see what i mean?
2006-08-25 18:21:35 · update #1
Honestly, it sounds like you're infatuated with him. You hardly know what he's like yet you aleady seem to be projecting your needs onto him and believing that he can fulfill those needs.
This, in and of itself, is not a bad thing. It can grow into a loving relationship or into friendship. However, the only way you're going to know whether the relationship is going anywhere is that you've got to talk directly to this guy. Using intermediaries may help you get a general idea but you're getting the information second-hand. Even your friends are going to interpret information differently than you and that difference may affect what they think is important for you to know.
Why not just be friendly with the buy? Say "Hello" to him now and then. Ask how he's doing. Ask how his family is doing (always a favorite as it shows you're interested in what affects him). See if you've got any common interests. From these, you can start to determine whether you two may be compatible. But it's a little too early to think that you're in love.
BTW, I admired my wife's-to-be embroidery in high school and we've been married 29 years. The simple things can work without excessive grief and hassle.
2006-08-25 18:08:45 · answer #1 · answered by eriurana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. No. No. All yur ideas are wrong! Why be so immature as to ask someone to ask him if he likes you when you can be immature all by yourself? Cut out the middle man!
Try these ideas:
Just use your jumbo crayons and draw him a pretty stick figure picture with you and him inside a big red heart.
Better yet, why don't you just write one of those classic notes hand it to him and run away. The note should read:
Do you like me? "Cause I like you if you answer real for true and not for play, but if it is for play then I don't like you either! Then put 2 boxes on it that say yes and check both of them for him before you pass the note.
Oh, Oh, even better...hit him in the back during recess and run away screaming!
No, No, even better than that...get his number. Call him up! When he answers squeal "He answered! It's really him!" real loud as you hang up!
GROW UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-26 01:14:05 · answer #2 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same reason girl...My crush to cant seem to open up.But i sugest waiting and wait to meet him where u guys are alone and ask him why dont u want to open up with me? I hope this helps.
2006-08-26 01:07:14 · answer #3 · answered by Hockey gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, you can pretend nothing happens. Make your "price" high. If he knows you like him, he thinks he's at a higher stage.
If he really cares for you, he'll open his heart.
2006-08-26 01:06:39 · answer #4 · answered by skynotblue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never send someone else to do what you should be doing yourself.
2006-08-26 01:02:04 · answer #5 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey normaly i would say ask him yourself but if he wont open up to you then i would recomend gettinga realy close friend of his to ask him for you
2006-08-26 01:02:37 · answer #6 · answered by tiny&proud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋