So I'm pretty sure I love this guy... ( we've been keeping things a secret ) Except I cannot tell whether or not he is still interested in his ex. They're really good friends, and hang out all the time - To mix things up a bit... She is still in love with him, and he knows it. I don't think he understands how much it hurts me, but I keep my mouth shut cuz I don't know what to do. I've brought up the subject B4... Actully, I started to cry... And he just re-assured me that he likes her as a friend, and only as a friend. Should I bring it up again or leave it alone? Would it get him angry if I keep talking about it? And what should i say? I need help!
2006-08-25 17:53:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't worry, ask him. Boys like to know these things. If he likes you, he'll show it. does he talk you, if he does and you also mentioned that he tol you he only likes the one girl as a friend. That means he HAS to like someone. That means your the one. ask him it can't hurt, and if he doesn't like you that doesn't mean you messed up, we all make mistakes. Don't feel like your the only one. Remember your never wrong if you try.
2006-08-26 14:48:52 · answer #1 · answered by Krazi3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would he like it if you still hung around your ex? Sounds like he is playing games with you. He probably is still seeing her thats why you have to keep things secret. Wake up chic! he's playing you. That would be what guys call running game on a girl or being a player. Don't let him use you like that. You deserve better. Hope I didn't hurt your feelings. But I would rather tell you the truth now then hear that you caught his butt and then you would really be hurt. Trust me I seen and been through to many times. Hope that you listen and lose his A**.
2006-08-26 01:21:13 · answer #2 · answered by WildChild 0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would he want to keep things a secret? Having his cake and eating it too? Don't be a sucker if he isn't willing to commit to you. Cry, get over it and move on if he doesn't...or do nothing and stay with him and quit whining.
P.S. Just because he is still friends with his ex doesn't mean anything. I am still friends with my ex-wife and ex-girlfriend and I am definately not banging either one of them.
2006-08-26 01:01:05 · answer #3 · answered by northcoastjunior 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he wants to have his cake and eat it too, we men prefer to leave our options open. Even in a commited situation we will make options. Any male of the homosapien species who says that not true is lying his a** off. If I were you I would leave it alone, but brace yourself and expect it to be coming. I used to know a few guys in HS that had their local longtime steady GF, but had a piece on the side in the neighboring town that they would go to see when their GF refused their advances. Don't be anybody's fool! It's better to be alone than to be that. Good luck!
2006-08-26 01:12:14 · answer #4 · answered by moonpie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you think for a minute. It's obvious he's involved with both of you, why else would he want to keep your "relationship" with him a secret and he still goes out with his "ex". I doubt she's really an ex.
2006-08-26 01:08:32 · answer #5 · answered by caramel_sundae1077 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should get all stressed out on it. He told
you he likes her llike a friend and only a friend so you should
talk to him. I dont think you should bring it up again. He already
told you before that he likes her for only freind so you should
flirt with him. Take before he goes back with his ex.
2006-08-26 01:01:17 · answer #6 · answered by Sunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him to make it official and in the open, keeping things secret will only cause them to blow up in everyones face.
if hes not willing to tell everyone your dating then there is something fishy going on and hes probably trying to play both you and his ex.
2006-08-26 00:57:29 · answer #7 · answered by plainwolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have made the decision to still love him even though he is friends with his ex then drop it....
2006-08-26 01:02:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you tell him how you feel. Let him know that you trust him, but you feel jealous of the time he spends with her. He may get upset with you, but do you really want a man that doesn't respect your feelings?
2006-08-26 01:03:33 · answer #9 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE FACT THAT YOU ARE KEEP THING A SECRET, IS
NOT GOOD AT ALL, SO I WOULD SERIOUS TALK TO
HIM AND FIND OUT WHAT THE DEAL IS WITH THE EX
AND EVERYTHING ELSE. HE MAY BE PLAYING GAMES
WITH YOU AND HER.
2006-08-26 01:03:51 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋