I want to DIE?

Question

I am so stressed out and depressed. You could never picture me like this if you knew me in person. My family, I hate them. They are so rediculous and ignorant. I can not take **** from them anymore. I have had enough. I feel like jumping off of my roof. or my window which is located on the second story of my house. kfkfkhfhk

Answer 1

no it's not worth taking your life for anyone, things will pass trust me I'm a single full time working mother and it is the hardest job and sometimes i dont think i will make it either, but i do

Answer 2

First, don't jump off the second story of your house. You would probable not die and would just have a lot more problems than you have right now.

Next, if you still feel this way after a little time has passed, maybe you need to get someone else to help you instead of your family. If you feel like killing yourself immediately then you need to call 911 and tell them how you feel. They will send someone to take you to the hospital to get evaluated. If you don't want to go through the hassle, call someone to talk to them and try to tell them how you are really suffering. If your thoughts of suicide persist, you need help before you act on these thoughts. Talk to anyone that you think might be able to help you form a plan to help yourself. Sometimes when people are in such a bad state, it is hard to plan and think logically.

Last, remember that this is not something to ever be embarrassed about. Fifty percent of the population will have problems like this in their lifetime. The ones that will fare the best are the ones that ask and get help. Don't take no for an answer. If one person or even one doctor doesn't give you the help that you need, find another. There is help out there, it is just sometimes a little hard to find. Sometimes we all just need a little help to get things going well again.

Answer 3

Ok, whatever you do, just don't jump off your roof because you would defenitely regret it if you ended up alive.. Just think this.. there's hope for everyone, and if you hate your family, there has to be a better reason then them being ridiculous and ignorants. If there's no remedy for that hate, just think that (if you're under 18) once you reach the age of 18, you'll get to make your own choices and start a new life. Apart from your family. Although I strongly believe that family is a very important component in life. At 18, you can move out, go to college or work and start a new life you feel comfortable with, however you like it, at your measures. But really, life dosen't end here, it's too special to waste it feeling negative about things. Think positive. Everything you see is pretty and beautiful. That's how I get out of my depressions. Everyone feels stressed and depressed once in a while but get over it sooner or later. You said it yourself: if I knew you, I would never picture you like that. I bet you're a wonderful person! And everyone goes through their rough times, but don't worry, you'll get over it. Suicide is not the right way. Be glad you're alive.

Answer 4

It is normal to feel that way at some point in life, and none of us are what we seem to other people. After growing up and meeting so many people in this world, honestly no one really likes their family when they are growing up, no mater what anyone tells you right now. It sounds like you are still a minor living at home, so realize that while you do not have control over much right now in life, you will someday. Right now though you do have control over how you act and even how you feel. Jumping off the roof doesn't really help you or prove a point to anyone. And I know you feel depressed right now and frustrated at your family, but you are allowing your self to be frustrated by them. I know this sounds cold and a little mean, but ultimately you have to take control over how you feel and how you act. Once you realize you can control your emotions and behaviors, you take the control away from others. Think of this as another way you can have control in your life. If you are stressed out, maybe figure out what you can cut out of your life, like extracurricular activities. If you're depressed, find something you like to do and go do that. Play a sport, learn a new form of art, write, volunteer at a children's hospital. Doing something that is enjoyable for you will help you feel less depressed. Realize that everyone feels depressed at some point. You aren't alone or the only one who feels this way. Hope this helps!

Answer 5

You are just going through the stresses that all youth face as they grow and change. It's hard to cope. I remember feeling the same way and thought there was no way out. But there is. Just give things time...focus on your needs and achieving what you need to achieve to gain your independence. It won't be very long before you do, but you need to study and find a way to make a living for yourself. Don't rush from "one hell hole" to another. Take the time to get to know yourself and don't make the mistake of thinking finding a boyfriend will be the answer to all your problems. You need to find you first, and then all else will start to fall into place. You will be happy with all that you will achieve if you just forget about others around you...there will always be people "in your face" everywhere you go in life...but it's easy to get them to back off if you just focus on yourself and moving forward. Before long they will see that you are determined and honestly just ignore them. You have to live at home right now because you have no where else, but you needn't fight because others have different views. Parents can be difficult. They mean well but they need to learn to listen and remember how difficult it is for young people to find their way, especially in today's world.

I try very hard to listen to my kids and I have had to learn that sometimes you just have to let some things be and they will eventually resolve themselves.

Answer 6

Don't jump from your roof, unless you break your neck you probable won't die and may end up a quad not being able to move at all.

Seek a counselor and talk to them about your situation, a good youth pastor at a local church can help you.

Before you decide to kill yourself talk with someone your feeling will pass as you get older things do get better but right now call a hot line or an ER they are trained to help you.

Answer 7

The only one your hurting is yourself,not them.When you are more calm,and relaxed think about what is bothering you?Try to manage it in the best way possible.Be strong for yourself,to many times people get wrapped up in themselves.They do not realize others are out there with problems too.Why not try to talk to your family or a close friend?If you want to talk to me leave a comment I will try to help you figure everything out.You are important,very special,and their are people who really care what is going to happen to you.People like me so smile,and God Bless

Hope this makes your day a little cheerful:
A psychiatrist was conducting a group therapy session with four young mothers and their small children. "You all have obsessions," he observed.

To the first mother he said, "You are obsessed with eating. You even named your daughter Candy."

He turned to the second mom. "Your obsession is money. Again, it manifests itself in your child's name, Penny."

He turned to the third mom. "Your obsession is alcohol and your child's name is Brandy."

At this point, the fourth mother got up, took her little boy by the hand and whispered, "Come on, Dick, let's go home."

I hope that gave you a little smile

Answer 8

Get on your knees right now before God and explain to Him your dilemma. Tell Him you can't take it anymore, that you are at the end of your rope and you have.....nothing.....left.
Ask Him to intervene in your life....commit all this to Him and just see what happens.
I know Him, I've seen Him work and heard of His work thousands of times over, He never changes, He is always faithful.
Keep in mind, when you do this you are committing it all to Him and you have to trust the direction He takes you along.
I absolutely, unflinchingly promise you He will do a work in your life that will blow your socks off. Keep your eyes open and take nothing for granted for when the Lord of all moves on you, you never come back the same.

Answer 9

this is normal, just remember you're a human being and stress, misunderstandings, anger, ignorance, fighting, loneliness and many other things go along with depression and situations that provoke depression.

you're not alone. i had many times like that.. i got into hobbies and took walks, rode my bike.. visited my friends and yelled at myself alot so i wouldn't give my friends a complex. sometimes i would play tennis with rocks and just blow up somewhere far away near a feild or where there's lots of trees and just escape from it all and get in touch with other things like nature.. art... getting to know me.. talking to me about myself and getting that into and out of my system.. a little me time is what you need.

really, trust me.

also talking to someone mature and understanding can help you along. this is a normal problem we have... don't die over something common like this.. besides life is too damn short now.. give yourself time and patience and those around you.

a little perspective and me time goes a long long way.

Answer 10

Do you have $50 or so?

My advice: before thinking about ending your life, pls make an appointment for hair (and make-up) and give yourself a complete make-over. Wear a smartest clothes you have when going to the salon. Tell them that you want the hair/make-up done to match with your outfit.

After that, go to any places you like - club, cafe, mall, bars, etc..

Nothing to lose!

Answer 11

if you were stupid you wouldn't know the difference....since you are obviously smarter than your family (meaning you are blessed that way)your lowest point of depression is your highest point of survival.. In other words, God is trying to tell you that you have foresight, insight, and hindsight, (The ability to pull through when others break down and you can think out a solution while they still remain stupid and helpless..) A prayer is also being said for you.