i just found out that my former high school band director is dating a former student of his. i heard that they have been going out sice last december SHE WAS STILL IN SCHOOL!!
we always thought something was going on between them but i think this is too far....12 years between them....
2006-08-25 17:21:58 · 26 answers · asked by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I WOULD NOT HAVE DATED MY TEACHER WHILE I WAS IN SCHOOL BECAUSE IT WOULD HAVE PUT HIS JOB IN JEOPARDY. BUT I WOULD HAVE DEFINATELY DATED HIM AFTER GRADUATION. I DONT THINK THE AGE DIFFERENCE IS A PROBLEM AS WE GET OLDER..UNLESS HE IS 24 AND SHE IS 12. BUT IF SHE IS 18 AND HE IS 12 YRS OLDER THEN THATS NO BIG DEAL..
2006-08-25 17:26:17 · answer #1 · answered by KELLY H 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, at least no one knew while she was in school. He would have lost his job, and she would have been shunned by much of the school.
Well, my 10th grade Engish teacher could have had me ANY day. He was SOOO hot. But High school is in the past now, so I wouldn't go back to my home town just to date a former teacher. If however, I ran into one of my teachers, and we had a lot in common, and it gradually progressed, well, then I guess I would, if there was a connection.
2006-08-25 17:27:38 · answer #2 · answered by legallyblond2day 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he's single and not a creep, it somewhat is advantageous. do no longer assume a definite nevertheless. in spite of the shown fact that it particularly is a sturdy thought to attend til you're 18. I asked out my freshman 3 hundred and sixty 5 days social study instructor whilst i became 18. She suggested no of direction.
2016-09-30 00:16:16 · answer #3 · answered by haslinger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well personally i think that is a little off but dont get in the way as long as their both nice people and all then just let it go. Shes a big girl now she can do what she wants. And musicians are supposed to be very caring people. But if you realy have a problem with them seeing eachother talk to her about it and say how you feel.
2006-08-25 17:26:12 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Sunshine ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It was probably ethically wrong AT LEAST for him to date her while she was a student. However as long as she is not a student, or he is not a teacher in the same school, ain't nothing wrong. I had a friend who dated a teacher at our school AFTER she graduated. They are now happily married with 3 kids!!
2006-08-25 17:32:36 · answer #5 · answered by Echo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are over 18 and graduate that high school,I think is OK to date your former teacher nothing wrong with that.
2006-08-25 17:26:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would date a few of my college professors, oh yes I would. But I'm also in my 30's. ..looks like former teacher has a bit of the Lolita complex going on.
Hasn't he ever listened to "Don't Stand So Close to Me" by the Police?
2006-08-25 17:25:49 · answer #7 · answered by jkautt 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
IS SHE STILL IN HIGHSCHOOL?? Teachers aren't supose to date high school students. if so and you feel that it is wrong then you should tell someone. U dont want that student to get free A's when she doent deserve it or something.
2006-08-25 17:26:15 · answer #8 · answered by tlmorton@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that is a bit nasty but then I am also a teacher so that is just taboo. But in reality it is no worse than a Dr. going out with a patient.
2006-08-25 17:26:16 · answer #9 · answered by Kelly Y 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
wow not cool. especially not when you are still in school. Plus it just is a weird dynamic. too many obstacles in that relationship, would never date my high school teachers.
2006-08-25 17:24:56 · answer #10 · answered by TR 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋