i hardly ever want to have sex, but boyfriend wants to do it all the time, i'm just not interested, and its not him because i never really been that interested in sex, i just just want to be with him
2006-08-25 17:18:39 · 16 answers · asked by jenny729 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are some medical reasons for low libido. It's worth bringing it up with your doctor at your next checkup. Since you say this isn't a change, that you've always felt this way, that makes medical seem a little less likely, but it's worth talking to your doctor about.
People do just vary naturally in their sex drives. If you guys are open with each other you should be able to reach a compromise. Everything in relationships comes down to compromise in the end.
It does help to go slowly and try different things to find something that feels good to you. I mean, different types of foreplay, different positions, etc. Even if you can find just one small thing that you enjoy and look forward to--even if it's not part of "sex" per se--it will help you feel more willing and interested when he's coming on to you. A nice massage is an old stand-by to help put you in the mood, especially working his way down to your butt and thighs. Even if it doesn't work to put you in the mood, at least you got a nice massage out of it. That's a fair trade-off.
2006-08-25 17:39:11 · answer #1 · answered by EQ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you want. Do you really want to be more interested in sex or are you happy with your sexual level? Once you've decided on that then you can go about sorting it. If you want to be more interested, talk to your bf and see what you could try, what sounds interesting to you, there's loads out there. If you're really not that interested, and some people are like that, then you need to accept that in yourself and explain what you want in from your sex life with your bf.
2006-08-26 00:23:41 · answer #2 · answered by snowfoxx71 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are old enough go to an adult store and buy some toys and a karma sutra book and some sex games and some good porn.
2006-08-26 00:22:14 · answer #3 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch sexy movies and try doing that,when you will see your partner enjoying that then you will automatically develop interest
2006-08-26 00:26:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be medical or mental, you should have a talk with your Doctor and have a good check up. Seems your libido is very low.
2006-08-26 00:25:46 · answer #5 · answered by johnb693 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there's a lot of things to take or do; but exercise and a good diet and sleep usually max out ur desire. if ur already doing that, then it's just not in u (in more ways than one!)
2006-08-26 00:21:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
find a guy that can make you more interested....know how to give you oral, kiss, caress the works.....you will think of how good it is.....and will want it all the time
2006-08-26 00:26:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the therapy my ex-wife refused to get.
2006-08-26 00:21:43 · answer #8 · answered by benino6677 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait for the right man who'll drive you enough crazy to crave for him
2006-08-26 00:21:32 · answer #9 · answered by Mash 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch porn, then learn from that, it will make you very interested, and especially HORNEY!!! works all the time!
2006-08-26 00:21:53 · answer #10 · answered by yo. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋