Had been talking to a girl I liked...?

Question

Had been talking to a girl I liked for bout two weeks on and off. (Didnt want to be pushy). We got along the times we talked and I asked her if she wante to hang out. she stated " Sure I would love to." I let a few days pass and called her up. I asked how her weekend events went and she stated that, they went fine. Then she said in a sad voice.."I just found out my ex-boyfriend cheated on me the whole time we were together." "I cant stay on the phone." "I gotta go." I was lost for words, I mean come on what do you say to that. I said I understood and told her to take her time. We said good bye and I have not heard from her for a week. Question: Should I call back, is that a nice way of letting me know she was not as interested in me as I thought. Or do you think she will call back?

Answer 1

it is just bad timing dude. if she was over him it shouldnt effect her that much. it was in the past and past relationships shouldnt get in the way of current ones. i think you should call her one more time. see how she is going and if she would still like to hang out. mention what you could do when you call her too. if she says no, leave the ball in her court. goodluck dude

Answer 2

She probably is very untrusting towards men at the moment and it has nothing to do with you. I think you should go ahead and call one more time and ask how she is. If she brushes you off this time, just call it quits and find someone else. You don't want to seem to pushy or like a stalker.

Answer 3

Well sorry to hear that but the message is clear she hasn't called back so forget her. Move on and meet someone else. I don't thinki it be wise to ring her.

Answer 4

i dont really know.wait til school,or maybe a couple days to call her.she needs time,but also needs to know you are there to support her and be a shoulder to cry on.dont take advantage of her!