i got him from the humane sosiaty hes not injured or anything his owner just gave him away.he seams to be very tense and hes pacing alot.WHAT SHOULD I DO TO MAKE HIM FEEL AT HOME,WELCOME and calm down a little.i think he misses his old home i feel so bad for him...oh and hes a year old
2006-08-25 17:01:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pets ➔ Dogs
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2006-08-25 17:12:53 · answer #1 · answered by Baby Love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody here has given excellent suggestions. I’m impressed by how much everybody cares!
A long time ago, I adopted a 5-year-old dog, which I got from the original breeder (not a human society). For the first week (on the advice of the breeder), I made sure to keep him happy with lots of play and lots of positive interactions. But the one thing I also did, was leash him to me! Really! I kept him on the leash, and tied the leash to my belt. So, he literally followed me around everywhere (yes, even to the bathroom).
I know it sounds odd, but it quickly connected the dog to me, and me to the dog. We bonded very quickly. Dogs are pack animals, so they very much want to be part of your family and part of a society. By physically connecting him to you (obviously with a fairly long leash, and not a flexi-leash), you enforce that he becomes bonded to you. He also can’t pace around the house getting nervous and tense. You’re always near-by to give him a gentle pat on the head and a kind word.
Good luck!
2006-08-26 01:34:32 · answer #2 · answered by Inseries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk soothingly to him, and tell him how special he is,
so he knows he is a part of your "family".
I think touch is a marvelous way to express love, so any excuse to scratch behind an ear, or give him a nice hug.
I often use soft music as background noise whenever my pet is anxious, or if I have to leave the house.
I am sure with time, the loss he is experiencing will fade.
Once he has a sense of belonging and routine, he will feel better.
I wish you luck in your bonding!
2006-08-26 00:12:25 · answer #3 · answered by LadySlipper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
poor little guy! Just be patient, and make sure you give him lots of attention. Play with him, give him some treats, and a comfortable place to sleep. It may take some time, he is probably confused and tramautized right now. He is a young dog which makes it better as he is probably not too set in his ways yet and will adjust to you and his new home soon. Good luck.
2006-08-26 00:06:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is suffering from anxiety.
The dog needs lots of love, activity and attention. Walk the dog several times a day. Set aside a special place for the dog to sleep.
Eventually, the dog will realize that you care about him, and he will feel at home and be more comfortable and secure.
2006-08-26 00:08:51 · answer #5 · answered by ne11 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I adopted a dog from the Humane Society when he was 10 months old and it took him some time to get used to me and my home but now he couldn't be happier. You did a great thing and trust me he will be in love with you soon. Try to put yourself in his place, he's probably scared and confused. It will all work out.
2006-08-26 00:06:03 · answer #6 · answered by bcooper1975 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some time to calm down. Shelters can be very scary. If you can, get him a toy and an old blanket or towel to sleep on. Perhaps some dog biscuits to reward him when he does something "good."
2006-08-26 00:33:17 · answer #7 · answered by malcom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bless you for getting a pup from the Humane Society.
He's a lucky dog to have found you. Let him get used to his new home. After he adjusts to this huge change, he will be able to show you how much he appreciates your affection and care.
Hang in there. Love, structure, and treats conquer all.
2006-08-26 00:16:27 · answer #8 · answered by Roxanne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal for a new dog to act nervous in a new family. Let him get familiar with his surrounding and talk to him in a sweet voice. I have two dogs who were both completely nervous when i first got them. Now they're hyperactive maniacs. I miss the early years. LOL
2006-08-26 00:05:56 · answer #9 · answered by Katie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont forget where you got the dog. put yourself in his or her paws. certainly they are confused and grieving and are now in at least the second new place since being torn from what was home to him. with lotsa love and tenderness and reassurance mixed with occassional treats and special things or treatment this dog will realize that this really is home and that he isnt gonna be tossed outta this place too as soon as he lets his guard down. sooner than you think, with lotsa love you will win this dog over and his fears will be put to rest. he will know without a doubt that he is finally at home with you in your home. this is bound to be a story with the happiest of endings just give it time, patience, love, understanding, compassion and your heart. in time it will be given back to you ten fold...i promise!
2006-08-26 00:15:21 · answer #10 · answered by LYNN A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats!! We just got a puppy, she's too cute!
Just give the dog time and love and attention. You never know what it went through before and it just may take it time to trust you
2006-08-26 00:06:19 · answer #11 · answered by hello2tlf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋