im 17, and the guy i am sort of with is 20 going on 21. we have amazing chemistry and we get along wonderfuly. my parents like him, and vise versa. we spend almost all free time together. i have never felt this comfortable with a guy before. i dont think i am in love, but i do have very strong feelings. is it time?
2006-08-25 17:01:03 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your moving to quickly. You have a whole gap to fill in first. Believe me, when your in love you will know. Sex isnt allways the cherry on the top of the ice cream. Some relationships are detroyed because of it. Be patient,youll get there.
2006-08-25 17:10:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe it's emotionally not legally generic_insane_guy. Haha
Anyway, you say you don't THINK you're in love, get on straight on what you really feel about him first. But listened, I suggest that you wait a bit longer because you are still young. Sometimes you don't know if you'll regret it afterwards, so it's better if you wait and be sure that the guy you are with respects your decision. If he insists on doing it; gets mad or whatever, then obviously he's not the right one for you. Someone who loves you never rushes you on important steps like these because he cares about your feelings and your decisions.
So, I hope this could help.
2006-08-26 00:17:54 · answer #2 · answered by blowmamind 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I'm only 15, but I regret the decision I made to lose my virginity. I knew I was in love with the boy, but he didn't love me. You should at least wait until you are positive you love him. There's a song by Lyfe Jennings called "S.E.X." You should listen to it really makes a lot of sense for your situation. The last thing I want to tell you is that if you can't rely on your own judgment then you aren't ready for anything.
2006-08-26 00:15:53 · answer #3 · answered by New_Insight_2009 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do anything you feel un sure about. If your even questioning this, maybe somewhere deep inside, your saying no... If it feels right, go with it, but believe me when i tell you, your first time is something you can never get back and you should do it with someone you know will respect you. My first time was with someone i really loved and i dont regret it, but i almost slept with someone i didn't even really like. Glad i made the right descion. Hope you do too...
2006-08-26 00:07:28 · answer #4 · answered by thats_hot_097 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking then you are not ready. Dont do anything that you will one day regret wait until you are ready and in love. If he cares he will wait too and when you are both ready it will be amazing enough. You are really to young anyways for this and you should really wait though.
2006-08-26 00:07:17 · answer #5 · answered by tiggerluvnmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm..well thats yur choice based on yur morals..i dont believe in sex until after marriage cuz i find sex a very important and sacred thing to a girl..i would rather wait for the right guy..this guy may be awesome but maybe you'll find someone better ..and if you arent sure..you shouldnt..you may regret it. completely upto you though.
2006-08-26 00:38:05 · answer #6 · answered by umm hi<333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should wait 3 years, or even until marriage. which of the two you do, is up to you. But if it means not getting spanked or hurt, but a guy whose crazy, concede. No girl in her right mind, wants to get hurt. Personally, I think you should wait, till marriage. But like I said, it's your choice.
2006-08-26 00:05:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that this is the guy you wanna give yourself to then go for it .
But i would wait will you're 18 just cause of the age difference..
2006-08-26 00:05:53 · answer #8 · answered by ELEN G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont you do it with someone you dont love, I dont care how good the chemistry is. That would be stupid and it would ruin your friendship. For it is better to be hot and bothered than satisfied and worried..
2006-08-26 00:09:21 · answer #9 · answered by NIKFAY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was kind of in your shoes except the guy was the same age as me. just be sure your into him. Cause if in the future things don't turn out how you would want, you don't want to regret what you did.
2006-08-26 00:07:42 · answer #10 · answered by fuakata 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋