My girlfriend is always sayin she wants to wait and have sex after we get married but that will still be a while considering im 19 and she is 18. So whats the best way to get her to have se x with me
2006-08-25 16:46:01 · 20 answers · asked by Troy W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should stop trying to get her to have sex with you. She is being strong for you. When you know she's this committed to a cause, you should respect that...and know when you marry her...she will NEVER cheat on you because she has standards and values.
2006-08-25 16:48:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her wasted lol j/k you really need to respect her on this one and quit asking/pressuring her to have sex (I know what its like) trust me she WANTS to have sex with you but she WANTS to stay abstinent until marriage, just dont pressure her, know that she loves you and if one day you guys decide to get married know that she will NEVER cheat on you becuase of her high standards and morals, so in a way your lucky she's not sleeping with you, because then what if she had slept with other guys too wounldnt that tempt her more in marriage? Where as if she stay abstinent she will think of you as a sex GOD (she doesnt know any different) and you'll know your the only one to ever enter her, and will be the only one EVER in her life time. okay well anyways good luck and if you get married...I send my best wishes to both of you
2006-08-25 23:55:09 · answer #2 · answered by atm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really like her and you really wanna stay with her than you really need to listen to her. And if you really wanna have sex with her then tell her your feeling and talk about it and if she goes through great but if not then wait until the right time. And if you are one of these gay people that are going have sex then leave them then you are such a dick and need to get a life!!!!!!
2006-08-25 23:53:18 · answer #3 · answered by Tori H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dude. You should be proud and admire her for wanting to wait for that special day. You won't find another out there she's rare. Appreciate her and respect what she wants to do. If you can't wait them let someone else be lucky to have her. Think it over! you have someone special!
2006-08-25 23:57:35 · answer #4 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously if you really like/love her you SHOULDN wait to have sex until you get married...so that you can have unprotected sex which in your case is good becasue you can enjoy it more and you can also expect your kids...CHILDREN are good to have i think you should wait,,, if you force her to have sex maybe it wouldnt be good becasue her mind is not into it and everything...
2006-08-25 23:54:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you re going to hel* and that is the rudest, most self centered thing you could ever want from your girlfriend. I hope girls don't give into jerks like you. Respect her don't abuse her.
2006-08-25 23:50:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really care about her then you should respect her wishes ...
You never know maybe one day she'll change her mind ..
2006-08-25 23:49:29 · answer #7 · answered by ELEN G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude. She doesn't want to, and if you do, then you don't respect her. And that makes you a jerk. Don't pressure her into anything.
2006-08-25 23:48:58 · answer #8 · answered by xxjoanna_maexx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont push her it prouably her belife if you wont her just to have sex you have proublems life aint all about sex (it may be hard to belive) =)
2006-08-25 23:52:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get her to give you oral or a hand job. Maybe you can do anal.
2006-08-25 23:50:11 · answer #10 · answered by JoeIQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋