i like him,but i CANNOT tell him?

Question

i have liked him for 5 years.we have grown up a little since.im only 15,so i kinda suck at this.ok:i like this guy.last yaer i wrote him a note to tell him.he went out with 2 of my friends.poeple who are friends with him say he talks about me all the time and he is in love.so i wrote him a note telling him how much i like him.he replied by asking me,"is this a friggin joke ash?" i was like,"no.im serious."he just laughed.then i found out from a friend he was talking behind my back.i try to stay away,but he is perfect.he sends me notes and gives me cute glances,just stares at me.he loves to play with my hair too.i just dont know how to tell him.im in love.dont tell me i dont know what love is.cuz i do.he went out with 2 of my friends.people said it was just to get to me.i dont know.i think he mgith like me,but i dont know how to ask.last time i was really closeto ruining our friendship.do you think we are just good friends,or do you think that he likes me for more?thanx 4 the help! -ash

Answer 1

ok, I'm also 15 and not the most skilled at this, my first opinion: Stop the Juvinal note passing, and stop the asumtions, straight forward ask him out. To his face, not through a friend, not through a note, IM or phone call, be mature and just be like "You wanna go out with me?" or something casual along those lines

Answer 2

Bloody hell, guys, don't be so mean!
Listen love, I be 17, almost 18. I know ye must know what love is. If I was in yer spot. I would ask meself, if he is really so perfect, is he not worth giving it all up for? If so, I would gather up all the courage in me and calmly, politely tell him how I felt and let him know I was confused as to how he felt and would appreciate him letting me know. If it doesn't work, then ye'll know he's not bein' the one fer ye. An do no worry, cause when ye feel the love again, it'll blow away the pain this guy caused ye. An hey, maybe he'll come out and say he really likes ye. It's worth a try eh? Ye can do it. :)

Answer 3

This is a great way to start a relationship. You sound like you are a girl who knows what she wants. Work with that. You say you know what love is, then prove it. Make your move and tell him how you truly feel about him. If he doesn't feel the same way then you are better off. I know it may hurt you, but these are things that you have to face in life when messing around with your heart. People mistake love for lust. It is not your fault, it is human nature to mistake the two. If this is truly how you feel, then say something. Don't let this pass you by. You may live to regret it. Also, remember, he may not be mature as you.

Answer 4

Honestly, if he went out with your friends, do you really think he wants to go out with you? I think you are just really good friends. I've been in that situation before and it sucks. I told the guy how I felt and it ruined our friendship. But I did learn how he felt...which was not the same as I did. Don't let others mislead you by telling you he likes you. People told me the same thing. If he likes you, he would let you know. If he asked if your note was a joke..that's not really a good sign.

Answer 5

omg im 15 andi hate it when people are like you're not in love. its like okay moron and you would know this because? lol anyways i think that you should confront him...if hes a real friend telling him how you feel shouldnt change things. even if he doesnt feel the same..boys are age are very immature so he may stop talking to you so much..but i think if hes a true friend he'll keep talking to you. i had to tell my best friend i liked him and it turned out he didnt feel the same but we stayed best friends and later we even started dating. so i think you should take the chance because if you're around him alot and you dont get it off your chest, you're gonna start feeling alot more strongly towards him. if he doesnt feel the same..you'll be able to move on. i think you should tell him but thats just my advice. do what you feel is right. goodluck!

Answer 6

You are probably just looking to deep into it. A lot of people do. He is probably just a flirter or is charismatic, so is looks probably mean nothing. If your note did not do the trick, he doesnt like you. You are probably looking for any possible hint that might say that he likes you too, and are looking way too far into this.

Answer 7

You probably shouldn't try to puch your luck. But if you really think that he likes you as more than a friend, seize the day!
You may never have another chance to tell him, and if you don't, you may end up regretting it later on in life. But if you have to tell him, don't do it in a note. Tell him to his face, or there are going to be problems. Trust me.

Answer 8

ok well im telling you from experience just tell him how you feel...but dont just tell him like all of a sudden do it in a way that he will actually listen to you and think u are being serious cuz to tell you the truth giving him a note is sooo childish...like whenever you see go up to him and pull him to the side and tell him that you need to tell him something that has been driving you nuts for a while...then tell him excatly wat you feel....by the way how did you almost ruin your friendship?

Answer 9

So your name is Ashley?
Ok, here's what I think- He belives you and takes you seriously, but doesn't want you to know that. Tell him you have something to tell him, and ask him to "just listen". Then tell him, how you feel about him, even if you have to do it, metaphorically or even hypothetically. End with something like, "I don't care if you belive me or not, Tim. I'm telling you the truth, and I know how I feel".Then see what he says.

Answer 10

Ask him once and for all. If he says he dosn't like you then tell him to stop giving off signals that he does. If he says that he does then you will finally know. Good luck and I hope that you find answers soon!