Do you think most men know how to please a woman orally, or are they just acting like a dog and lapping away like a fool?
2006-08-25 16:35:58 · 32 answers · asked by CarloS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lapping away like a fool. I perfer women going down on me vs. men.
2006-08-25 16:38:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lots of lapping ... I think it truly depends on the man though. If a man is interested in pleasing his partner, then he learns to master lovemaking (including oral). If a man is more concerned with pleasing himself, then he is more often than not a poorly skilled lover. From a woman's perspective too, being able to judge good lovemaking can sometimes be hard ... for women it's very dependant on emotions and environment. But I mean, when you're bad you're bad. And frankly some men are clueless, but its not just their fault. Lovemaking is learned through experience, and if no one has shown them what to do, how can they know? PLUS, every woman is different... It's not always just about the clitoris, its about caressing the thighs, licking the labia, and truly enjoying the art of oral lovemaking ...
It is their fault though when someone has tried to improve their lovemaking skills or alter them, and they refuse any constructive criticism because of their MALE egos. :P
2006-08-25 16:43:46 · answer #2 · answered by Crystabella_BC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I definatly not a fool lapping away. I given oral to several woman and it not easy you have to experament. But I found the best method is to start slow and use one or two fingers find the g-spot and apply a little bit of pressure and small cirlces with your finger. While using you tongue and slowly work your way to the cliterus but for god sake do not bite. And any erogenous zones you find during foreplay that are withen reach you should use you free and to rub. One of the closest spot I found is the belly inbetween the bellybuton and pubs.
2006-08-25 18:05:04 · answer #3 · answered by neil k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Out of the mouth of experience, most men need supreme guidance in this category, it takes time and practice on the part of both partners mine was not that great at the start but after 10+ years of marriage I would rate him as a pro, the secrets are crushed ice, jello, and flavored whip cream, I promise this will make both people happy and create alot of time to practice if placed in strategic places.
2006-08-25 16:40:12 · answer #4 · answered by osu2720@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man can be good but as soon as he is with another he may be horrible. Every woman wants different things when it comes to oral. No man is good at that with every girl. He may say that, but he is just looking to be "THE MAN" but really he isn't. If he was any bit of a man, he would keep personal things like that to himself.
2006-08-25 16:41:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most men try hard to please a woman orally but really have no idea how or where to stimulate. the best thing for a man to do is use both his mouth and tongue and hands. and for goodness sake dont neglect the rest of us, go down come back and stimulate our lips and breasts , then go back down again. go between rough and gentle motions. oral sex for a woman is just like regular sex, it takes a lot of practice and listening to her needs to do it right.
2006-08-25 16:39:59 · answer #6 · answered by TR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they just lap away until they are taught what way is the right way. so it takes communication from both partners to find out the correct way. But figuring it out is half the fun.
2006-08-25 16:38:31 · answer #7 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most men that havent had much experience are probably just lapping away like st.bernards. but there are some that have gotten helpful tips from mates, these are the only ones that shoulg be permitted to give.
2006-08-25 16:38:31 · answer #8 · answered by 0000000000000000000000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'd be a lot better if they'd ask for feedback, instead of thinking that what worked on their last lover is surefire for THIS one....
we're rather different, y'know. Moods change, even from week to week.
Porn movies are NOT necessarily good instructional tools, BTW.
If you really want to know what techniques makes your partner, male OR female, excited?--ASK THEM!
2006-08-25 16:41:36 · answer #9 · answered by samiracat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL. men are different. It depends on their experience and if they enjoy giving a woman pleasure.. I don't think they act..maybe they are trying to please their woman and they just need to be told how their woman likes it. If we don't tell them how we like it... how will they ever know... ?? The best thing to do would be to STOP..judging them and start being honest about what....we like and how........ Right??
2006-08-25 16:41:01 · answer #10 · answered by ..Luna.. *.. ) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋