Why is he doing THIS 2 me?????

Question

MK, so this Ex- Boyfriend of mine says that he still likes me, but whenever I try 2 talk 2 him, he RUNS AWAY!!! (Even if I scream his name!) I asked him why, and he says that he was looking for his friends (I REALLY don't think so... cuse' he starts running the moment he sees me) I like him too, (and he knows that now), and he likes me... But WHY does he run away from me& doens't wanna talk 2 me??? (when he likes me???) Is it cuse' one time, I hurted him alot? He says that he's not mad @ me, tho!!! And... O- is this one of those mind-games that guys play?? Cuse' the way that he's acting is making me want him, follow him& chase after him... And 2 be honest, I had NO FEELINGS for him, until he acted that way... now I want 2 know why& more& want him... Is this feeling REAL or just fake??? Do I REALLY like him??? Plz answer!!!

O BTW, I didn't MEAn 2 hurt him- it was a big confusion... I try 2 tell him that, but he runs away..?

Answer 1

You feel guilty that you hurt him. You really don't want to be with him, but when he mentioned that he still has "feelings" for you, you decided to hook up with him again. He probably enjoys playing games, and it sounds like you do as well. Therefore, the emotional baggage is just too much. Chalk this relationship up as a big lesson learned in love, commitment and honesty, and move on.

Answer 2

I had an ex-boyfriend who played games like that. Total waste of time and let me warn you, you are the one who will be hurt next time around. If he wants to run away let him run, you do not have time in the world for that nonsense. Next time you happen to see him, just ignore him. Relationships are about maturity and friendship. Don't worry, whatever feelings you may have for him will pass, spend time focusing on more important issues other than this silly boy that can't face you.

Answer 3

wow that sounds kinda immature how old is he
as far as the feeling goes thats something only u can answer
but heres some helpful questions to ask urself and u may find out how u feel

-when u see him is it like time slows to a complete stop
-can he make ur day better just by seeing him or the sound of his voice
-do u find urself looking at him alot
ask urself these questions and answer honestly and u may figure out how u feel about him

good luck and if u or anyone else has anything to ask u can email me at [e-mail] im no licensed doctor or anything but i am willing to listen

Answer 4

Get some really expensive track shoes. Next time he takes off chase him down and tap him on the shoulder. Say, 'TAG! YOU'RE IT!"
That is as mature an answer as this question deserves. Besides, it just might work.

Answer 5

Boys are very simple creatures, they like to feel they are in charge of the situation, when you hurt him it showed him that he had no ability to define the relationship. his only method of control now is to keep you running.

Answer 6

If you would stop chasing this guy and leave him alone he would be chasing you.women know how to play that ole game.Your trying to hard,just chill out .

Answer 7

Watch out gal.....ever heard of the word 'blackmagic'.....mmmm i think this is the outcome of it that u really liked him while he just keeps running and hiding from u.

Answer 8

The best advice about men I ever got Is: Ignore them! They are like little kids when you ignore them, they crave female attention so when you don't give him your attention he will be all over u.

Answer 9

My suggestion to you is get yourself some therapy. If this is a real question you need a lot of guidance.

If this isn't a real question you need a hobby.

Answer 10

He seems like he is very immature... He is playing games with you... maybe to get back at you for hurting him... its not worth it... MOVE ON!!