Should I talk to him again?

Question

I dated this guy for like 2 months, he broke it off in May of this year becuz he wanted to concentrate on his studies (becoming a doctor) and wanted to give his whole"100% time" devoted to me...at the time I thought it was BS, now i dont know. I'm curious, he said there wasnt anyone else, I just want to know what happened, and how's he doing, what's going on in his life, just be friends...what you think? Should I talk to him or just let it be. Keep in mind we realllllly liked each other, and been intimate...I'm 26yrs old and he's 25.

Answer 1

If there's really no one else, I don't see why he would not want to keep contact with you. I would try to contact him, see how he is doing, but don't expect a lot from him right now, if he is truly trying to focus on his studies. If you reallllly like each other, than why shouldn't you at least be able to keep in contact?

Answer 2

Let it be. It sounds like you still have feelings and may trigger even stronger feelings if you make contact which could lead to pain. Besides, if he's studying to become a doctor it'll be a looong while before he's able to settle and really focus on a relationship. If you two are really ment to be, you'll meet again.

Answer 3

I would stay good friends with him. Maybe something will come up later when he has his degree. It would be a nice bonus to be with a doctor also :)

Answer 4

i think you should remain friends with him and just go with the flow and let destiny do it work if you guys are ment to be then it will happen but if you guys aren't then that's just the way it has to be there will be other guys and other chances.

Answer 5

send him an email inquiring as to how he has been doing. Keep it simple, keep it brief.