He cheated on his girlfriend about a month ago (yes, he's an idiot) and now, the girl he cheated with says she's pregnant. She has called him on his cell 38 times in the last 3 days. She's also called his girlfriend at work. She's an ex-meth head and doesn't seem mentally stable. Any suggestions from anyone with a similar situation?
2006-08-25 16:17:46 · 18 answers · asked by ruby 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He told his girlfriend a few days ago and their working through it together. At least there's hope in that.
2006-08-25 16:22:59 · update #1
Sorry to hear that your friend ruined his life with this woman, if she is pregnant. Questions for you are: Is he ignoring her calls? Has he spoken to her about this matter? Has she confirmed with a doctor that she is actually pregnant? If she is pregnant and it is his child, then I'm sorry to say this, and I'm not trying to be mean or insensitive...but, he's made his bed and now he must lay in it. Maybe next time he'll keep his junk in his pants and not be so playful. You play you pay. :\
2006-08-25 16:23:44 · answer #1 · answered by Fuzzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That friend is stupid to cheat with a meth-user, cause now he might have STDs and even a baby, and I don't know which is worse!! Where does a crank-whore get a cellphone to call him 38 times, and why did that dumba$$ give his number to her? I'd say his crime is being a moron, plain and simple.
2006-08-25 23:54:42 · answer #2 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"A similar situation"???
If I had a similar situation, I'd have killed myself already, and wouldn't be here to answer you.
DO NOT GET IN THE MIDDLE OF THIS TRIANGLE.
The only thing you can do is encourage the bf to deal with the meth head and get a paternity test IMMEDIATELY to verify if there is any truth here. Meth screws with a girl's period forever - she might not even be pregnant. The bf must confront this and deal with it.
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2006-08-25 23:29:24 · answer #3 · answered by robabard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He made a huge mistake (obviously) and now he has to deal with the consequences. Also, if he was gonna cheat, why cheat with someone that's mentally unstable? There's really nothing he can do now but wait to get a paternity test.
2006-08-25 23:21:44 · answer #4 · answered by 00jag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should have thought about that when he was doing her! That's all the world needs, a meth head having a baby! THANKS ! He would show himself as a MAN(not a BOY) if he answers her phone calls. He need to take responsibly for what he's done. He doesn't have to marry her,but he should support what he has made!
2006-08-25 23:30:37 · answer #5 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a similar situation but if he cheated and he did not use protection he better do what is right. As the saying goes you play you pay!
2006-08-25 23:20:51 · answer #6 · answered by dsmiling62 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the best thing for u is to completely stay away from the situation. even though u want to help its going to backfire on u somehow
2006-08-25 23:31:32 · answer #7 · answered by DownWithTheSickness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are in same parish, church may help out. Otherwise, take help from social/family counsellors. Some elderly person in the family, may help, as well.
2006-08-25 23:21:52 · answer #8 · answered by swanjarvi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing he needs to do is to come clean with his girlfriend. He also needs to find out if this child is his or not.
2006-08-25 23:20:06 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the only thing he really can (and should) do is fess up and come clean. granted he'll lose his gf and pick up a knocked-up ex crackhead but he got himself into that mess. good luck to him.
2006-08-25 23:22:22 · answer #10 · answered by - L - 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋