My girl has held out on sex for going on 5 months now. How am I surviving this madness? Well she does please me in other way to hold me off for a while but ultimatley I care about her and understand her reasons.
Thing is lately when we start making out and things get heated up, Im getting really aggressive. Like I just cant take it anymore and Im like practicaly wrestling with her to get under her clothes.But not in a violent way of coarse.Finaly I give up and I apologize for being so rough with her, and that I should have stop when she says no. Im not nessiceraly ignoring her but Im telling her I Love her and not to be affraid.Well after she tells me not to apologize because shes sorry.She says she dont understand why she does this to us when she wants me and that she likes it when Im rough with her cause it makes her feel good to see how bad I want her.And when she say "No", she don't really mean it.Whats wrong with her?Does she want me to rape her or what?I aint sick,,just horny
2006-08-25 16:09:34 · 11 answers · asked by rock_roll_musicman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you are very young. She is trying to do the right thing and stay a virgin. You being rough is not helping.
If you truly want to make it a mutually satisfying experience, be romantic.
Caress, rub, and act like you have all the time in the world.
Rein the harness sweetie :-)
If you take her against her will, you will go to JAIL!
Your right hand is a better alternative...
If you love her, you will respect the fact that she wants you also but, wants to wait.
Assuming the gentle approach does not work :-)
2006-08-25 16:22:13 · answer #1 · answered by rvogelpohl2001 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok this is simple Middle school homework. Do you think that you really love this girl as much as to give your must prideful moment with her and to stay with her if anything happens like get pregant or having to get a aportion. If you really think it is time and she is the one you really love then 100% go for it. But if you have 1 dought in your gut you really need to stop everything and think about what your next step in life should be.
2006-08-25 23:18:50 · answer #2 · answered by Tori H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't see anywhere that you mention your or her age.. My guess is she still a virgin. What you mean held out for 5 months you had it before but not anymore? Oh welll, you two need to talk but not at the horny moment. Just regular talk. And see where things is going.. or else you probably need to get it somewhere else
2006-08-25 23:26:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude i have no idea i understand wnating your man to be a bit rough but you cant rape her okay thats taking it to far be consistent and keep trying but dont go all the way untill you can honnestly see it in her eyes that shes ready.
2006-08-25 23:17:54 · answer #4 · answered by a perfectly contradictory cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honestly it sounds like she wants you to phisically take off her clothes and **** the hell out of her.... If she has said she doesnt mean it when she says no then maybe you should ask her what she really wants then honor that.
2006-08-25 23:17:52 · answer #5 · answered by maes_quest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like me and my boyfriend.. i WANT him but for my own reasons, namely being a christian and only 16, i'm not going to go that far, not yet anyways
just cool off for a while and let her come to you
or, keep going on with the making out untill she's ready
don't push her
best of luck, here's hoping things work out
=)
2006-08-25 23:15:08 · answer #6 · answered by obedie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait and it will come to you and time will let you know when you are ready if you try and she is not ready then it will not go any father with you guys
2006-08-25 23:21:17 · answer #7 · answered by carolea_lamblin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe thats what she wants. i would sit down and talk more about this first though before getting that far into it.
2006-08-25 23:12:58 · answer #8 · answered by ::Hannah:: 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess she is still a virgin if she is acting that way....talk it out with her...for maybe she just isnt ready yet for it!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-25 23:17:27 · answer #9 · answered by Shybe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead finish the job
2006-08-25 23:16:22 · answer #10 · answered by bllllaaaaaaaa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋