Was it ok of my wife
I have a daughter that is 16 years old and she likes to go around with boys playing with them in sexual way. My wife caught her almost giving up her virginity away,now she got very anergy with my wife. My wife decided to buy her two plastic toys, which I don’t agree with her.
2006-08-25 16:05:45 · 11 answers · asked by anoko23 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Well I guess its better than her going out and getting pregnant or an STD....But I would sit down and talk to her about the risks of "playing" around. Physical, mental, and emotional.
2006-08-25 16:10:15 · answer #1 · answered by misstikal311 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that isn't all right! First, you need to ground her butt until she is able to move out and I think your first mistake was not doing that the first time you found her being "frisky". Second, that is just gross. I know that all people touch themselves at one point or another but that is something that is private and shouldn't be known. Take the reigns and tell your wife to take the toys away from her. Ground her forever and don't let her go anywhere. Trust me, I have 4 kids and that isn't a "no-no" in the house but that is something that is done in the bathroom with the door locked and its not discussed. Well, what they did isn't discussed but if they have questions about it, then I will answer their questions.
You could call your local health department and see if they have seminars about teen pregnancy and what could happen if they are having sex and let her know that you don't have to have complete penetration for any disease or sperm to pass into her. That is what I have told my oldest, 12, and she is scared silly. She hasn't had her first kiss yet, which I'm glad about, even though she has had a chance to do it, she won't. Good luck to you and I hope you can get it across to both of them that what is going on with your daughter isn't proper and what your wife did isn't either.
2006-08-25 16:17:19 · answer #2 · answered by brittme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I tell ya grandpaw! Get use to it cuz thats ya new name....
Your wife, sorry to say is a FOOL.
what ever happened to not until your married... This is what should of been taught to her from early on...
Im only 33 but, call me old fashioned i think not only is it sick and disgusting. But your wife herself needs help as much as or even more then your baby girl. what she is doing is not diverting her from boys but she is giving her something to go along w/ her other bad behavior. Now ya have 2 problems not 1.
And for your wife to even tell you that she did this is in its self insane to me.
Teens do get angry at their parents most often for all kids of stuff... but as a parent you dont give in! whats she thinking...So if ya daughter smokes pot will she now go buy her something to pass a drug test? I dont know but just by u asking the ? should give you the answer.
I think this is something you should put your foot down about and it might be a good idea to parent your daughter alone until your wife can get herself some parenting classes.
2006-08-25 16:18:13 · answer #3 · answered by killinshel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. That's so wrong.Your wife needs to stop watching reruns of "Sex and the City" and get some therapy and advice on how to properly raise young ladies. At this rate, you'll have a whore on your hands in no time.
2006-08-25 16:09:18 · answer #4 · answered by texgirl724 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
back Nate kinda creepy! i recognize that some general roles can get old so bypass for some new ones devoid of going to far! Like naughty penitentiary take care of and prisoner something a lil more beneficial outta the container yet not too creepy!
2016-11-27 21:57:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in your case toys are better than boys, i guess. but unless you want to literally cage her in her room theres nothing stopping her, you just have to accept that, teach her to be safe other than not have sex at all, that way wont work, but being safe is the next best thing.
2006-08-25 16:10:23 · answer #6 · answered by Tom C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um, what's the difference how she loses it? a toy is going to do the same thing a real penis will, so , just put her on the pill unless you wanna be a grandpa,.
2006-08-25 16:09:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's simply incomprehensible!
What planet is your wife on?
Two toys? Whom do you suppose the second one is for?
Good luck!
2006-08-25 16:15:18 · answer #8 · answered by David J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA, you girls actually believed this guys story, that's comedy in itself.
"And for your wife to even tell you that she did this is in its self insane to me." ---- LOL, exactly, this isn't real
was a good story though
2006-08-25 16:24:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just read his last question. doesnt sound like a father or husband!
2006-08-25 16:41:25 · answer #10 · answered by DyrtByrd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋