im madly in love with this girl of course. Somehow love didnt find a way and we were torn apart. I go from day to day making myself sick over it. Yet the idea of letting go is disgusting, and the idea of keeping on and keeping up hope is vastly liberating. Should i just stop making myself sick and move on, or should i hold on to what i have and keep up my hope?
2006-08-25 16:05:40 · 9 answers · asked by maguathehearteater 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if love didn't find a way, how can you? sorry buddy but i think this one is over, you'll have more chances for love
best of luck, and here's hoping
=)
2006-08-25 16:08:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you believe that your ex-gf still loves you, try with all your might to get her back. You can woo her again with romantic endeavors which can make her believe that you really want a second romance with her. Use both words and deeds to do that. Call her or personally visit her as often as possible, that is when she is available. Give her presents without any occasion at all. Tell her how much you still love her. And if ever you wronged her that caused your break-up, ask for her forgiveness with your commitment that you wouldn't do it again and live up to your words. If she was the one who wronged you, forgive her and let her know that.
Somehow, with those things that you will do to win her back, she may really see your sincerity and if she still loves you, I'm sure that a second romance between you too will be in the offing.
However, if you think that there's no more hope for you to be back to each other's arms, you really have to move on believing in your heart that if you and that girl are really meant for each other, at the right time, Destiny will work towards your reconciliation with her. But if you are not meant to be, just believe firmly in destiny who I'm sure will do his share in bringing you to the path where the right girl for you is just waiting. Good luck.
2006-08-25 23:19:19 · answer #2 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in allot of pain, that much is obvious. It's going to take time, and you might always have a part of your hurt that will hurt...but the thing is, you cant change the way things have turned out. You could go on, loving her from afar, but being lonely and lost. Or, you could try to take small steps away from her. Maybe talk to a girl one day. Maybe throw away one thing she gave you another. Keep making small steps, and before you know it, you'll be strong again. You never forget your first love...but if its meant to be, she'll come back to you. If you think you are strong enough, let her know that she always has a friend in you. Hang out with a bunch of other people. Just remember...time heals all wounds. Its lame and cliche, but I promise, its true. I hope things work out ok for you.
2006-08-25 23:10:56 · answer #3 · answered by Cherished_Bride 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand that 100% WHAT YOU ARE SAYING I've been there!!!!! BUT THIS IS WHAT IS SAY IN THE BIBLE
1 Corinthians 13:1-13
The its not really love..
Love is patient; love is kind; love is not envious or boastful or
arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends. But as for prophecies, they will come to an end; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will come to an end. For we know only in part, and we prophesy only in part; but when the complete comes, the partial will come to an end. When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child; when I became an adult, I put an end to childish ways. For now we see in a mirror, dimly, but then we will see face to face. Now I know only in part; then I will know fully, even as I have been fully known. And now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; and the greatest of these is love.
2006-08-25 23:17:17 · answer #4 · answered by LovelyMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Expectation postponed is making the heart sick. You decide. IF you wait... and you win the prize (the girl) then it will be well worth it. If not ....you will have loved and lost. A famous poet said it is better to have loved and lost then not to have loved at all.
But please do not hurt anyone, physically.
2006-08-25 23:17:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It feels so bad because you have suffered a loss. If you think you don't have a chance then you should let her go. You are in love with love. You will find another. I simpathize with you. Good luck.
2006-08-25 23:13:01 · answer #6 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep up hope for a month then move on.
2006-08-25 23:11:43 · answer #7 · answered by a perfectly contradictory cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2006-08-25 23:13:28 · answer #8 · answered by sar-mir 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should move on, it's the best and healthy way to do so.
2006-08-25 23:09:00 · answer #9 · answered by superboredom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋