we just started dating and i dont wanna seem like a freak but i cant seem to get those pics outta my mind.. all i can see is *** an titties and its driving me nuts....
2006-08-25 15:42:58 · 37 answers · asked by allidavenport 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi,,,, all you have to do is to show him all your boyfriends with out their shirts on.....you know,,,6 packs and abs.... or ha (big Bannana) in the hammock....... He will get rid of his believe me.... or You to can join the rank and file on his screen.......
good luck
2006-08-25 15:46:56 · answer #1 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Depends on what you're really feeling.
Are you objecting to the other girls' nudity because you find it distasteful, or because you've been brought up to believe that men who collect porn are somehow sick?
Or are you actually aroused by their uninhibited sexual display? Does it make you hot looking at it? (I have to add, at this point, that there's nothing to be ashamed of here. Women are as affected by erotic imagery as men are, they just have different indoctrination and thus respond differently - but it's not wrong in any sense).
You have to ask yourself what, exactly, you want to do at this point with your boyfriend. Because all I can think of is that, at some point, you're probably thinking that he's going to ask you to pose naked for him, and at that point your relationship ceases to become special. All of a sudden, you'll be just another piece on his wall of conquests.
Or maybe you want him to delete all those pics, get rid of his past, and have pics of only you romping on his screen.
So, before you react, ask yourself what it is your libido wants, what your pride wants, and what you want.
Once you've established what you want ... then ask him what he wants.
And if you can work something out that you both agree to and can consent to, do it. If that means adding photos of you and him to his wall of fame, go for it. You have nothing to lose either way.
2006-08-25 16:02:45 · answer #2 · answered by fiat_knox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look as long as she's not splashed all over his screensaver then what's the problem? So he has a past? Big deal!
Grow up, get over it or get out! But good luck in finding a man without a past.
2006-08-25 21:22:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you're still with him is far more revealing than your boyfriend's trophies on his PC.
Don't be a victim - follow REO Speedwagon's advice: "Time For Me to Fly" unless of course you want your picture up there too for the next one to see...
2006-08-25 15:58:45 · answer #4 · answered by David J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was half naked on the computer then she obviously does not understand how easily those computers can be damaged. I hope your boyfriend isn't a chubby chaser.
2006-08-25 15:47:00 · answer #5 · answered by eric l 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's your problem I'm afraid.
Were you a virgin when you met your current guy?
If not, then the pictures you have seen are the same as the ones you have in your head.
Deal with it, and good luck.
You sound like a nice girl.
2006-08-25 15:52:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to delete them, or better yet, let you do it. Don't do anything for him from behind a lens! There are probably a million sites solely dedicated to naked photos of ex girlfriends.
2006-08-25 15:47:56 · answer #7 · answered by wupierto 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are the pictures there for you to see? That's pretty rude of him.
You are not a freak. That's cold of him to have you see them, and by the way, when do you think YOUR picture will be in his little collection?
This sounds waaaaaay to weird. Better think twice before you get comfy with him, I think he has issues.
2006-08-25 15:46:54 · answer #8 · answered by brian k 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are now in a relationship with this guy, you have the right to tell him that it bothers you. If he still has these pictures, it doesn't seem like he's really into the new relationship with you.
2006-08-25 15:45:29 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sabotage your bf's computer. Download a virus, or scratch the hard disk with a screw driver for good measure. Problem solved.
2006-08-25 15:46:36 · answer #10 · answered by megalomanya 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be important to know whether or not you were already going out with him when these pictures were posted/taken. Either way though just be glad that they weren't completely naked.
2006-08-25 15:45:39 · answer #11 · answered by wite_box 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋