There is this girl that I really like and I need tips for asking her out (if I should in the first place.)?

Question

Ok. So there is this girl I met about a year ago. She's single and we're friends. She's really nice to everyone, so I'm not sure if she likes me or if she is just well...being nice. I can't stop thinking about her. I talk to her on the phone sometimes and just don't know what to say. I'm worried that I come across as sounding to cocky and really random when we talk. I don't think she knows I'm interested, or she could just be ignoring it. I'm worried that she thinks i'm weird because a few of my friends belong to the computer geek croud. LOL. Is it too late to get her to like me? Should I just ask her out? What if she say yes just to be nice (not what she really wants.) What should I do?
Oh, and we're in High School and I am too young to drive.
One more thing. If I DO ask her, and that is still a big if, should I ask her in person or is email okay? How should I tell her?
What should I do if she says no? She's in a couple of my classes and it could get really awkward.

Is the transition from friends b&g friends really that horrible? Is it worth putting a friendship on the line for something more?

Answer 1

You don't have to ask her out right away. How about just seeing if she wants to go to the library and study with you, or going to a sporting event? If you ask casually, as in "hey, I was going to go to the library tonight to work on that big project for Mr So-and-so's class, do you want to come?", OR hey did you hear that so-and-so is playing in the (insert sports activity here), I'm planning on going - did you want to come with?

By making it casual and acting as if you were already planning on going, it seems less formal like you are asking her out, and gives the impression that you are confident enough to go do things on your own regardless of if she hangs out with you or not. It will probably intrigue her enough to say yes.

Just be confident and not cocky. Good luck.

Answer 2

Just ask her if she would like to do something like.... go to the beach, a movie, or just go for a walk in the park. So now she knows your interested in knowing her on a more personal level. Good luck. Just remember, Your only in High school and you have a life time to live.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

If you really like dis girl ask her out but do it in person don't go on the e-mail and ask her. thats being a wuss. girls dont like wimps. i f ur on the phone dont worry bout being random or cocky, just try to make her laugh. a fake laugh is when she says hahaha and then is followed by 5-10 mins of dead air, punctured with "yeah", "ummm..",and "meh". a real laugh is when she, eventhough the joke is done, she is still laughing, cutting u off with her laughther. if she doesnt like ur friends den no matter how hot, sexy, or curvy she is, she's not worth it. its never too late to get her to like u. u should ask her out and if she says yes its probably because she likes u, cause if she's ur friend she'd just tell u the truth. if ur gonna ask her out make it subtle, dont be too forward but dont be too shy and mumble it. if she says no, wat to do next depends on wat she says. if she says no nicely than ur ok. if not than ignore her. she's not worth and forget about being awkward.

Answer 5

Ask her in person...don't give her a chance to ignore you. If she likes you, then it doens't matter if ur friends are geeks

Answer 6

Your first sentence hurt me. You have known her for a year as friends??? Not a good start, but good luuuck, people have been going through this for centuries, you can handle it.

Answer 7

ok... you must feel confident with yourself and not to worry your nerd frens.... you need to make sure she accept you whatever you are...... some girls dont really care about cars cause your under age maybe....
dont call her if you dont know what to talk..... its boring.... start a cool and gentle conversation... no email invitation...NO ....talk to her and yes congrates...if no try to talk to her by phone or something.... tell her when you are comfortable and ready.... i know it is hard to kept inside but try to be patient

Answer 8

listen to "Hail to the Squid!!!" he's right. but if you do, in person, come on, all guys know that, i'd never ask a girl out with email

Answer 9

find put wat she like become her friend and ask her if she like anybody dont become best friends though then ask her in a place where there is not that mush people or put a note in hetr desk or something and actually sign your name on to and if you havent start talkin to her

Answer 10

Try some tips on this site to help you with it